My Best Friend Me: Loving Yourself Unconditionally for Attracting the Life You Desire

By Leopole A. McLaughlin III

When we embrace and radiate love, both for ourselves and for humanity, we tap into an extraordinary power that enables us to attract the life we truly desire and manifest our deepest wishes. Love, the most potent force in the universe, holds the key to unlocking our potential and attracting abundance into our lives.

In the quest for manifestation, the missing piece often lies in our capacity to embrace love. Love transcends all boundaries and possesses the ability to transform our reality. By harnessing this often misunderstood force in the right way, we can draw towards us all that we desire. Love operates as a guiding force, providing meaning and purpose to our existence.

Contrary to what some books on the Law of Attraction might suggest, love is the vital ingredient that has been overlooked. With the power of love, we can craft the life we have always yearned for. Picture it—the fulfilling career, the triumphant entrepreneurial ventures, the fulfilling relationships, and the abundance of wealth. When we vibrate at the frequency of love, all these aspirations become within reach. Love opens the pathway to unlimited possibilities!

Embrace love as your guiding light and watch as your life transforms before your eyes. Love unconditionally, starting with yourself, and extend that love to all those around you. The ripple effect of love knows no bounds, and it will attract the very best that life has to offer. Believe that everything you desire and require is within your grasp, because with love as your driving force, the attainment of your dreams becomes an undeniable truth.

So, vibrate love, radiate love, and watch as the universe responds in kind. Embrace the power of love, and witness the manifestation of a life beyond your wildest imagination. Love is the missing element, the key that unlocks the door to your dreams. Embrace it fully, and let love guide you towards a life of abundance and fulfillment.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Leopole A. McLaughlin III
• Release date: Sep 19, 2022
• ISBN: 9781005825799

Leopole A. McLaughlin III

Leopole A. McLaughlin, III, is a serial entrepreneur with several ongoing business ventures and non-profit organizations. He is the founder and Chief Executive of Progeny Life which created child support insurance. The founder of The Venture Biz Kid Foundation of America which is an organization that teaches children entrepreneurship, and he is the founder of the Walk with Strength Foundation, which is an organization that helps young African American males expand mentally, emotionally, culturally, and physically.His other books include:Zero to a Million in 12: The 12-Step Guide to Making a Million Dollars in a YearPlaying the Game: An African American Guide to Success in the Business WorldAlpha Dads: The Most Ultimate Guide to Winning the Drama Without Hiring a LawyerTwo Strands of Light: A NovelWhen Dealing with Snakes become a MongooseThe Super Achiever

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MY BEST FRIEND ME

LOVING YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY FOR

ATTRACTING THE LIFE YOU DESIRE

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Dedicated to my beautiful niece,

Briya T. Rumsey

09/13/2002 – 07/07/2022

MY BEST FRIEND ME

Loving Yourself Unconditionally for Attracting the Life You Desire

FORWARD

I. Cultivating a Self-Love Mindset

II. Why We Can Be Our Worst Enemy

III. Become Your Own Best Friend

IV. Forgive and Embrace Yourself

V. Believe in Yourself

VI. Live Your Truth

VII. Know Your Worth

VIII. Raising Your Vibration

IX. Develop Your Body

X. Enlighten Your Spirit

XI. Envision your Desires

XII. The Power of Will

FORWARD

"When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too."

– Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

I once had dinner with a friend of mine who had told me that in order for her to get motivated to accomplish the things that she needed to do for her success, she would often try to listen to motivational tapes to keep herself inspired, however, she would soon realize that after a day or two, her motivation would wear off and her projects would not be done. I told her that if she wanted everlasting motivation which would never wear off, she should not depend on any outside forces or imaginary thinking, but to start with her inside first. I told her that if she wanted to make a drastic change in her life, she must first accept everything about her current life and then the change will come.

You see, you must accept and entirely love everything about yourself in order to change yourself for the better. This is not a contradiction but a way to raise your vibration high enough to channel and manifest the life you desire. Loving yourself unconditionally and wholeheartedly is the key to everlasting motivation because your Being will only want and desire the best for yourself and will not tolerate anything less.

Love is by far the most powerful force in the universe. By using this highly misunderstood force correctly, you can attract all the things in life that you desire. Love is the light which enlightens those who give it and receive it and opens our minds and as well as our eyes to see others for who they are. Love is gravity. That strong insatiable desire that pulls people together when they feel attracted to one another and that strong connection we have for those we care about. Love is power. It multiplies the best we have and allows humanity not to be extinguished in blind selfishness. Love unfolds and love reveals.

Einstein once stated, …to give visibility to love, if instead of E = mc2, we accept that the energy to heal the world can be obtained through love multiplied by the speed of light squared, we arrive at the conclusion that love is the most powerful force there is, because it has no limits.

When we vibrate love, love for ourselves and love for humanity, we are able to use this powerful force to attract a life we want and to be able to manifest the things we want. This force of love explains everything in life and gives meaning to the life we live. Love is the missing variable that books based on the Law of Attraction invariably left out.

With this powerful force you CAN have the life that you really want! Yes, the life that you have always dreamed of, with the great job or the successful business you desire, you can have the relationship you want, and even the amount money you want. Everything you want and need can be yours for the asking. This is because, when you love yourself unconditionally, you will not tolerate anything less than what you deserve.

In all actuality, you have already been manifesting all the things that have been coming to you. It just might not be the things that you want because you just don’t know how to control it. Good things; a better relationship, more money, a better job, etc., or even bad things; bills, chaos, drama, bad relationships, etc., already manifest into your life everyday even though you are probably not manifesting the things that you actually want in your life.

This isn’t really a new concept, however, it was very new to me when it helped me to understand who I am and why I kept making the bad decisions and choices over and over again. Why did I keep choosing the wrong people into my life? Why was I leaving great jobs after only a year? Why were my businesses failing even though I had great business ideas which were well funded? These and many other questions would pierce through my heart and soul, questioning why my life was not where I had wanted it to be.

After getting out of one bad relationship after another, I decided to take a sabbatical until I could find myself and become the person who I envisioned myself to be in order to attract the right people into my life, the right amount of wealth I wanted, and the right opportunities. However, I really had no idea how to go about this since it was me who was attracting those wrong type of people in the first place. You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want to attract the things that you want, then you must change who you are.

I had finally realized that manifesting the life that I really wanted was not just about sitting on the couch visualizing the things or items that I wanted and trying to feel good about it, nor was it just about placing cut-out pictures of the things that I wanted on a posterboard taped to my wall. That will not work by itself! This is why so many people felt as though books like The Secret didn’t work for them. You can’t just sit around and just think about something expecting it to magically appear. How can that work if you had not changed anything about yourself? You are still that same person with the same thoughts about yourself, in that same relationship you don’t want, working at that same job that you hate, doing the same ole things day in and day out.

If you really want that new life and all those things on your so-called vision board then there is one major component that must be done before any of this can happen. You must first raise your own vibrations high enough in order to attract those things. It is not about just visualizing that you have more money, or a new love, or better opportunities, etc., and then poof, lo and behold, these things will somehow magically appear into your life. It doesn’t work that way. How can you do this if you are trying to figure out how to pay your rent on the first of the month and it’s already the 15th and your bank account has a negative balance? How can you bring someone new into your life for a strong loving relationship by just lying in your bed visualizing about your ideal mate, yet you don’t have the courage nor self-confidence to go out to places where you might be able to meet this ideal person? How are you going to get that promotion at your job by daydreaming that your boss is going to hand you a big project if your self-esteem is so low that even you have doubts about your own abilities?

The key to it all in order to have success in everything that you do is self-love. Self-love is the highest form of vibration that you can have for yourself. Once you have self-love you will have the joy, happiness, and peace that you desire. You will have a life where you are totally happy and have all the things that you desire. If you don’t already have this now, then it’s time to reevaluate yourself and rid yourself of the guilt, jealousy, resentment, contention, malice, heartache, animosity, and any other type of negative, low vibrating energies that is holding you back, then fill yourself with total unconditional self-love.

When you begin to love yourself more each day, it’s amazing how your life will transform for the better. You will start to feel better about yourself and who you are. You will obtain the job that you desire, and you will have the money you need and want. All of your relationships will improve drastically, and the negative relationships will dissolve and relinquish itself, and will be replaced by new better and more healthy ones.

It’s very simple. By totally and truly loving yourself unconditionally your vibration raises, and you will attract only the good things into your life. You will no longer tolerate the things nor the people that harm or hurt you. You will be able to forgive yourself and others, love who you are and love the way you look. You will be content with where you are in life although you will always be striving for better, and you will start to place yourself first in your life. You will only accept the things that are good for you and will only attract the things that betters you, because you realize your self-worth and will no longer tolerate the things or the people of lower value.

Life is a voyage of self-discovery. When you totally love yourself fully and unconditionally, your vibration raises and then your life will become enlightened. You will be able to go within yourself in order to know who and what you really are. Then and only then, you will have the ability to change your life for the better.

CHAPTER ONE

CULTIVATING A SELF-LOVE MINDSET

"Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have