Speaking from the Sidelines

By Onyo Mamas Couch

Have you ever had to sleep in someone's closet because they told you their husband got off at a  different time but didn't?

• Language: English
• Publisher: On Yo Mamas Couch
• Release date: Apr 15, 2022
• ISBN: 9780578396545

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Speaking from the Sidelines

By Onyo Mamas Couch

Have you ever had to sleep in someone's closet because they told you

their husband got off at a different time but didn't? So you are forced

to be up all night bones crunching because any wrong move could

alert them of the situation at hand? Fighting is typically out of the

question when found in someone else’s house. They have all the

leverage and weapons. Not the ideal situation to be in but playing from

the sidelines often leaves one in these predicaments. Have you ever

been someone’s cousin, brother or nephew?

To be on call like a gigolo rather it be for sex or conversation. Putting

pride to the side for the sake of their happiness and pleasure. To

understand and to learn. Experience is a great teacher, but sometimes

someone else’s experience is good enough. This a journey from the

sidelines. To learn how the minds of people work. To know what it

takes to make the significant other see the reason why some things

have to be the way they are. Come join me on the sidelines.

Chapter 1

I often hear how men have the utmost respect and love for their

women, but treat them wrong. And regardless of seeing and knowing

these wrong doings. These women stay and it always baffles me. This

is where I would often come in. Before the whole side nigga thing

was out there I held that position to the best and was very secretive.

You wouldn’t be able to know even if you saw me coming out of your

wife’s or girlfriend’s house at 2am.

That’s how great I was, and I admired my position. No strings, no

commitment and to make a woman smile through all her hardship was

enough for me. Not to forget all the perks of it all.To be honest I never

knew what a side guy was. It all started with a little hot thang when I

was 19. She was an elegant and adorable woman. Definitely someone

worth wifing up.

You see as I was growing up I would see the guys in my family with

loads of women, mistreating them, cheating on them and everything

above. To be serious at first I thought that was how women wanted to

be treated. As I got older and older it all got worse. My friends would

disrespect their girlfriends and they would stay, and this was high

school we were talking about. Where I would think they were young

enough to not know better but had influence in their lives to show

them that’s not the way. I didn’t know whether it’s bad parenting or the

environment they were raised in. Either way I figured that they enjoyed

being mistreated.

I guess the way they got treated in public and behind doors were totally

different. Love is an incalculable equation that truly has no right or

wrong answer. I could never badly treat a woman. I was kind of known

as the nice guy. Make no mistake though, just because I don’t

mistreat women, does not mean I’m nice or a sucker. I never could get

the girls I considered but to be honest I never really tried. As high

school progressed on I thought maybe I should be a bad guy and start

treating girls like these other guys, I never did.

Chapter 2

I kept true to myself and for that, you have this book to read and my

journey to enjoy. Hopefully people learn from this book, both men and

women. I’m sharing my