Summary of Dr. Rebecca Anne Bailey's Easy To Love, Difficult To Discipline

By IRB Media

Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book.

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#1 This book is about change. It’s about learning to change your own behavior and your children’s behavior so that you can grow closer, resolve conflict, and enjoy life.

#2 The original Mother Goose rhyme states that it is hard to discipline children, but it is easy to love them. This book will help you become the person you want your child to emulate: a person who has self-discipline and child-rearing skills.

#3 When your children are misbehaving, you would be able to resolve their conflicts rather than resorting to playing bad cop. When your children refuse to clean up, you would know how to help them move past resistance and toward cooperation.

#4 The book Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline is about how parents should build respectful relationships with themselves, each other, and their children. It is about the other times in life when things do not go as we had planned, and when our own actions are not something we want to write home about.

• Language: English
• Publisher: IRB Media
• Release date: Apr 1, 2022
• ISBN: 9781669380528

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Insights on Dr. Rebecca Anne Bailey's Easy To Love, Difficult To Discipline

Contents

Insights from Chapter 1

Insights from Chapter 2

Insights from Chapter 3

Insights from Chapter 4

Insights from Chapter 5

Insights from Chapter 6

Insights from Chapter 7

Insights from Chapter 8

Insights from Chapter 9

Insights from Chapter 10

Insights from Chapter 11

Insights from Chapter 12

Insights from Chapter 13

Insights from Chapter 14

Insights from Chapter 1

#1

This book is about change. It’s about learning to change your own behavior and your children’s behavior so that you can grow closer, resolve conflict, and enjoy life.

#2

The original Mother Goose rhyme states that it is hard to discipline children, but it is easy to love them. This book will help you become the person you want your child to emulate: a person who has self-discipline and child-rearing skills.

#3

When your children are misbehaving, you would be able to resolve their conflicts rather than resorting to playing bad cop. When your children refuse to clean up, you would know how to help them move past resistance and toward cooperation.

#4

The book Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline is about how parents should build respectful relationships with themselves, each other, and their children. It is about the other times in life when things do not go as we had planned, and when our own actions are not something we want to write home about.

#5

The Seven Powers for Self-Control are ways of perceiving and thinking that help you remain self-disciplined enough to begin the process of disciplining others. The Seven Basic Discipline Skills are the only skills you need to constructively respond to any difficult moment.

#6

When you view discipline from a broader perspective, you can see that it is much more than just getting your children to do their chores or go to bed on time. Your approach to discipline demonstrates conflict resolution for your children, and it teaches them how to get their needs met in future relationships.

#7

When you use loving guidance, you teach your child to meet his needs in a socially acceptable manner without denigrating himself or attempting to dominate others. Loving guidance empowers you and your child, instead of pitting you against each other.

#8

To teach your child to respect limits, you need the Seven Powers for Self-Control, the Seven Basic Discipline Skills, and an understanding of how children develop.

#9

We all teach and learn constantly. Teaching is a constant process for everyone, not just for those whom we call teachers or students. We can choose to teach our children to treat others with love, respect, and trust even when things don’t go the way they should.

#10

Love is an action that has the following four results: it increases security and provides safety, it travels from the worthy to the worthy, it looks for the highest and best in people and situations, and it accepts what is.

#11

When you rely on fear-based discipline, you trigger physical stress responses in your child that hamper his ability to learn from you. When your child experiences stress, stress hormones