Turning My Pieces Into Peace: Healing, Hope and Love for the Journey
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When I discovered the truth on that fateful day in February of 2018, I was devastated. There was a lot of uncertainty, sadness, and confusion. I really didn’t know what to do or where to begin. But my heavenly Father put His loving arms around me, picked up my pieces, and began to unfold my story right before my very eyes. He affirmed with
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Turning My Pieces Into Peace - Annette James
Chapter 1
SHOCK AND EXTRAORDINARY CIRCUMSTANCES
When a blessing doesn’t really look like one
Two words describe what I have experienced. Life Altering! I felt the raw emotions of betrayal, and disappointment. I was heartbroken, and devastated by the revelation. For fifty-five years, five months and 27 days, I was secure in my own earthly family identity. I knew who I was because I knew who my parents were. I knew who my siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews were. At least, I thought I did. However, in that next moment, I had been unceremoniously uprooted like a tree and transplanted into another garden. My identity was shattered into tiny little pieces. It was unexpected, confusing, and heartbreaking beyond words. It was traumatic, plain and simple. I felt a sudden loss of a part of me. I was experiencing an identity crisis. I pinched myself to see if I was awake or merely experiencing a dream turned nightmare. These were just some of the emotions and thoughts that proliferated my mind, body, soul and spirit when I stumbled upon the truth. My dad was not my dad! My biological father was someone else. Who was I? I was in survival mode. Fight or flight. Those were my two choices at that very moment and in the coming days that followed. I chose to fight. Trees, no matter if they’re large or small, will suffer some damage when uprooted from one garden and transplanted to another. But, prayerfully, with the proper care, they will survive.
In December of 2017, I gifted myself a DNA test for Christmas. I wanted to delve deeper into my ancestry. I wanted to know more about my roots. If Alex Haley could find his path back to Africa, I could surely find mine. February 27, 2018, 10AM, was an exciting moment. I had just received my Ancestry DNA test results back and I was ready to discover the regions of Africa my ancestors lived before the forced migration. The email from Ancestry DNA said, You’re about to discover your ethnicity estimate, get a unique look at your family’s journey through generations, and maybe even connect with long-lost relatives. We’re so excited for you!
I clicked open the first section. Wow! Benin/Togo, Cameroon, Ireland/Scotland, Mali and more. Now let’s see if any of my relatives have taken this DNA test. I scanned quickly for known names. The only person I recognized was a second cousin whom I have known since she was a baby. I emailed her the great news that she and I were definitely related. When I scanned back to the top of the page, I read the following, WP is your father!
What is this? It must be a mistake. My dad passed away a few years ago. And I was certain he never took a DNA test. I immediately exited out of the website and signed in again. I thought if I did, the website would correct itself. But, as I refreshed the page over and over again, I found myself staring at the same information. Parent/child relationship exists (confidence extremely high) match. I clicked on several different sections of information regarding the DNA test itself. I was attempting to make sense of it all. After several minutes of bewilderment, I snapped out of it long enough to look at the next few matches. The very next match was (SRob). He was listed as a close family to first cousin (confidence extremely high) match. I decided to send him an email. Within ten minutes, he returned my request. I could not even imagine what he must have been thinking. I could barely remember what I was thinking. We exchanged a few more emails:
Me: Good morning SRob, I just got my DNA results back. It says we are related. Do we know each other?
SRob: Good morning. I bet you have as many questions as I do right now. We don’t know each other. I don’t see anyone that I recognize on your tree. I don’t want to play coy either because it appears we are very closely related.
Me: I agree. Emails back and forth just won’t do. As you can imagine, I’m at a