The Magical Sex Book: Create and sustain amazing sex in four simple steps

By Frank Wiegers and Judith Claire

Have you been longing for better sex but don't know where to begin? Put an end to the mystery and learn how to regularly create intimate, meaningful, magical sex.

Is being unfulfilled in the bedroom hurting your relationship? Know the passion is gone and want it back? Afraid you're too old to enjoy the exciteme

• Language: English
• Publisher: Top Gun Love Inc.
• Release date: Nov 16, 2021
• ISBN: 9780991162215

Frank Wiegers

Frank Wiegers & Judith Claire, love, sex, and relationship experts who teach how to create and sustain amazing sex. Magical Relationship=Magical Sex

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REVIEWS

"[The] author strikes that right balance of instruction and energy that’s missing in so many other books and seminars. Combining the methods of turning sex into a spiritual connection leads the reader right to the treasure of learning what’s missing, and the authors provide action steps to solve disconnection problems.

[The author gives] equal time for male and female points of view, plus inclusion making readers of all gender identities feel addressed. The sex after 50 section is a standout. Impressively, well done."

Judge, 9th Annual Writer’s Digest Self-Published E-Book Awards

"Regardless of your age or time you’ve spent with your partner, The Magical Sex Book is a must for all couples. Not only will it guarantee a better sex life, it will also help you deepen your understanding of your own needs and your partner’s desires. Well-written, helpful and engaging, it comes highly recommended."

Chick Lit Café

"Not just another fluffy spiritual sex testimonial! Magical Sex is a rambunctious romp into how to set the stage (Pre-Play), engage in the necessary prep (Fore-Play), find playful ecstatic sex (The-Play), and delight in lasting bliss in bed and beyond (After-Play). Written in an easy-to-access voice, this book relies on the wisdom and humor of a real Top Gun fighter pilot and knowledge and experience of a seasoned relationship counselor. Plus, the authenticity of an older couple who have discovered the secrets to living from their passion while defying aging. This book is a practical map to intimacy that incorporates the body/mind/spirit to heights that we all deserve to visit every time we unite with our partner."

Patti Britton, PhD, Clinical Sexologist, Author of The Art of Sex Coaching: DrPattiBritton.com or SexCoachU.com

"The Magical Sex Book is a masterpiece. We cannot deny that sex is a huge part of our lives as humans and people destined to procreate. It is to be enjoyed and not endured. The first step to having this enjoyable sexual relationship with your partner would be to read this book. It promises to be worth every penny.

Based on my love for this book and all that it stands for and is set to achieve, I rate this book 4 out of 4 stars."

OnLineBookClub - Ify Babe

"The Magical Sex Book is an inspiring instructional for anyone desiring intimacy that positively enhances their relationship and life. Appropriate for all ages, this book provides valuable lovemaking techniques that benefit young (and young-at-heart) lovers, vital hormone information to assist older beloveds, and sex magic techniques that create the connected and transformative intimacy we all crave. Very well-written in a downto-earth (and often humorous) style, this joyful read offers deep wisdom, tried-and-true technologies, and new ways to dazzle your partner and delight in your relationship."

Meloney Hudson: Author, Sexy, Spirited and Strong: Becoming a Positive Energy Woman, PositiveEnergyWoman.com

"The Magical Sex Book. Indeed it is. The instructional writing is very direct and concise, at the same time being sensitive to all of the nuances of the sexual experience. The book is certainly comprehensive, not missing a beat in the life-long learning process that great sex demands. There’s so much to learn but the book gives the reader many fast tracks for success. There are highly informed insights into what works and doesn’t.

This book is especially important for men, and it would be an especially sexually rewarding gift to a husband or lover. I guarantee that orgasms will be rediscovered at a whole new level for both partners."

Beck Peacock: Author: Learning to Leave: A Woman’s Guide, Director: Petals: Vagina Dialogues

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The Magical Sex Book

Copyright © 2021 by Frank Wiegers & Judith Claire

All rights reserved. This book or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the publisher except for the use of brief quotations in a book review.

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Printed in the United States of America

Cover Design: Tatiana Vila, Vila Design

Page Layout: Carla Green, Clarity Designworks

ISBN paperback: 978-0-9911622-0-8

ISBN ebook: 978-0-9911622-1-5

ISBN audio book: 978-0-9911622-2-2

Contents

Preface

Chapter One. Introduction: The Quest for Magical Sex

Sexual Revolution to Sexual Evolution

Is This Like Tantra?

Fighter Pilots and Lovers

Why Men Need This and How Women Can Coach Them

From Ordinary Sex to Amazing Sex

Then there’s Sex Magick.

Unlock the Power of the Four Steps

Create a Vision of Your Love Life

Sex as a Spiritual Practice

How Practicing Sex Is More Fun than Practicing Almost Any Thing Else

Chapter Two. Communication for Lovers

In to Me You See Leads to Magical Sex – Intimacy

Easy Rituals that Deepen Intimacy

Daily Do’s

Limbic Resonance

How to Get What You Want in the Bedroom

How Some Men Are

How Some Women Are

What Women Need to Learn

What Men Need to Learn

Create a Loving Conversation about Loving Sex

Going Deeper

Ladies First

In Bed

Exchanging Ideas

ROI

Chapter Three. Male Orgasm Training

Multiple Orgasms and Prolonging Orgasm for Men

Orgasm Training

Premature Ejaculation (PE)

Chapter Four. Step 1: Pre-Play

What is Pre-Play?

Before Pre-Play

Date Night

Calendar Sex

Desire Follows Arousal

Setting the Scene

One Example

Sex Magick Ceremony Preparation

Getting in Tune for Magical Sex

Verbal Communication

Non-Verbal Communication

Go, Slow, or Stop?

For Women

What to Do During Pre-Play

A Very Important Part

Chapter Five. Step 2: Fore-Play

Fanning the Flames of Arousal to Create Desire

Kissing

Fore-Play Scenario

Breasts

Vulva

Clitoris

Passion

Women’s Erogenous Zones

Lubrication

Fore-Play for a Man

Bondage

Make Agreements

Set the Stage

Costumes

Bondage Play

Spiritual Sex

Chapter Six. Step 3: The-Play

Oral Sex

Cunnilingus: Oral Sex on a Woman

Cunnilingus Scenario

Nipple Play

Focus on the Clit

Use a Finger

G Spot

Continuing Cunnilingus

Breath Connection

Reaching Orgasm

Fellatio: Oral Sex for Men

Fellatio Scenario

Partner Intercourse

Woman Astride

Using the Breath to Circulate Energy

Variety

Chapter 7. Step 4: After-Play

Deepening the Loving Connection

Sex Magick

The Law of Attraction

Sex Magick Ceremony

Create a Sigil

Chapter 8. Sex After Fifty

About Men Over Fifty

What is Andropause?

Partner Support

Low, or No, Sexual Desire

Sex

Common Male Issues that Can Be Resolved

About Women Over Fifty

What Is Menopause?

Will She Want Sex?

What Can You Do?

Hormone Replacement Therapy

Her Low Libido

The Good News

Appendix I. Anatomy

Female Anatomy — Secrets of Her Lady Parts

The Clitoris

G Spot

Bartholin’s Glands

The Vagina

The Cervix and Fornix

The Perineum and Anus

Pelvic Nerve Endings

Women’s Orgasms

Male Anatomy — How to Get His Magic Wand to Make Magic

Exterior Genitalia

Interior Elements

Appendix II. Step 1: Pre-Play Exercises

Physical Exercises that Bring You into the Moment

Hip Thrust

Ecstatic Dance

Spiritual Exercises to Connect You to Your Lover

Eye Gazing

Synchronized Breathing

Hand-on-Heart

Alternate Breathing

PC Contractions

Appendix III. Step 2: Fore-Play Techniques

Fore-Play Techniques

Fore-Play for Women

Hands and Arms

Head and Neck

Legs and Feet

Anus

Breasts/Nipples

Mons, Vulva, Labia, and Clitoris

Fore-Play for Men

Resources

Related Studies

Helpful Books

Relationship

Sexuality

Women’s Sexuality

Tantra

Sex Magick

About the Authors

Preface

I’ve been passionate about this work for over 35 years, and I’m so excited to share it with you. Sexual fulfillment came late to me because I grew up in a sexually repressed environment. After leaving a passionless marriage in my forties, I had something of a spiritual awakening and began an intensive study of love, sex and relationship. I read every book I could find and studied with teachers from Europe, India, and the U.S., including a Native American shaman. Wow! That opened a whole new world for me.

I always had this sense that sex could be very spiritual, and the more passionate it was, the more spiritual it was. I would get random experiences of Oh My God quality sex but couldn’t predict when it was going to happen and didn’t know how to make it happen on a regular basis.

As I continued my study and training, I was able to get to that place more frequently, but still not on what I would call a sustainable, repeatable experience. Then I met my wife, Judith, and I found I was able to match what I had learned to what she had learned—not just about sex, but about how to communicate and connect, how to treat each other, how to love. It was, and is, magic.

Service is a key value that she and I share. That’s why I was a fighter pilot, and why I have coached love, sex, and relationship for 30 years. Judith has been a successful personal, career, and relationship counselor and coach in Los Angeles for over 40 years. We are both dedicated to helping others improve their lives, just as we have improved ours. So, of course, we’d want others to benefit from everything we know about how to create magical sex.

Judith has been my biggest supporter,