Sex tips. 1001 mind-blowing techniques

By Oliver Peers

Need to liven up your sex life? Open the box! Arranged by theme, just about every pleasuring technique ever devised is presented here – handy for quick reference!
* Packed with explicit information. * Tips for you and your partner. * Keep the box by the bed!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Parkstone International
• Release date: Sep 7, 2021
• ISBN: 9781785259982

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INTRODUCTION

Welcome to sex tips.

Your love life is about to get better!

With 1001 loving and relationship-boosting activities for you to explore, you might be wondering how you’ll ever have time to fit it all in. And you’ll find that the creative suggestions will inspire you to think of even more ways to spice up your love life, too. So, where to start? Well, that’s really up to you …

You might like simply to have a browse, perhaps with your partner, until you discover something you’d both like to try. Or you could take it in turns to pick a tip at random, and give it a whirl right now! You might choose to challenge each other … or pick your most treasured, sensual treats. There are no hard-and-fast rules when it comes to sex. For ease of use, the tips are organized into categories (although the very nature of sex means you’ll find there’s considerable overlap), with tips for him featured on left-hand pages throughout, and tips for her on right-hand pages. That way, you’ll always know where to look.

If you’re feeling shy and need a fun way to warm things up with your partner, the sex-dare dice are on hand to help. Shake, rattle and roll both dice together and see where fortune takes you. You can’t lose at this game! And when you’re in the mood for some seriously sensual explorations, use the blindfold to plunge into a world of darkness and immerse yourself in your other senses (or use it to tie your partner up instead!). The twelve sex-tips cards can be used with the book to focus to an evening’s entertainment: choose a position that appeals to the moment, or just turn the pack face down and pick a card.

So, to begin, here’s your first tip: with sex tips there’s no excuse for complacency in your love life. Sex can always be better, and it’s never too late to try something new. There are plenty of tips here that will be just right for you and your partner, no matter the time, the mood or the inclination. Enjoy your love life!

SEX PLAY

Keep your love life tingling! A playful attitude to lovemaking can help you feel more erotically charged and free to enjoy your sex life to the max …

Hot Air? Try balloon play: blow up a balloon but don’t tie it. Use the air to tease your partner’s intimate bits (don’t blow air inside her, though, as it’s dangerous).

Wireless Wonders Some sex toys can be remote-controlled. Give one to your partner on a saucy night out but keep the remote to give her a real buzz!

Horny Hangman Spell out a fantasy, hangman-style, then start playing! If your partner loses, your dream comes true. If she wins, she chooses a fantasy instead.

Sexy Shopping Add some aphrodisiacs and food-play items (body chocolate, cream, honey, bananas) to the weekly shopping list to make a dull chore go with a bang.

Tickle Your Fancy? Erotic tickling is a great way to explore bondage and domination without painful overtones … so tie him up and break out that feather!

Give Him a Hand Lube your hands and grasp one hand at right angles to the other, pushing the top of his penis between your palms. Don’t just pump – try twisting, too.

Dream Awakening See if you can gently arouse him in his sleep. Hopefully he’ll be dreaming of some sexy woman and, as he wakes, there you are – ready for drowsy sex!

Slip-slidin’ Away Treat him to a massage. Once he’s relaxed, rub oil on your breasts and slide them against his back. It won’t take him long to turn over!

Sex on the Beach For a ‘hot’ holiday, remember to take a blanket with you for outdoor loving (sand in intimate places doesn’t add to the thrill). Be discreet!

Rollercoaster Ride Give your partner Chinese love balls, then take her to a theme park. If she wears them on the rollercoaster, she’ll be sure to have a thrilling ride!

Trigger Action Ask your partner if there are any saucy trigger words that really get her going. Or invent them. Then use them in your sexy talk and love-notes.

Ooh, Just There! Don’t be afraid to say what you like! Tell her how great it feels when she rubs your perineum or teases your glans with her velvety tongue.

Tongue Tingler! You’ve tried breath mints; now try sucking on some cough drops before performing oral sex. It’ll add a terrific tingle that will drive him wild!

Art to Art Explore new experiences with body paints. Use fingers, hands and soft brushes on the skin for different sensations and textures. And take pictures to admire later!

Write On Keep a secret diary of your fantasies. Describe what your partner’s doing to you in as much – or as little – detail as you want, then ‘let’ him find it.

Timely Tryst Too busy for sex? Make a ‘date’. Set a time and stick to it! Anticipation will get your minds working, and you can both be more spontaneous on the day.

Read My Lips Watch for signs that she’s enjoying your tongue technique. Hips rising to your mouth, writhing and moving in anticipation, is good news!

Good Vibrations Get your partner to set her mobile phone to vibrate and then slip it into her underwear. Call her throughout the day to give her saucy thrills!

Make it Last As you feel her orgasm beginning, slow down your licks and make them firmer to give her a more intense experience.

Ring the Changes Toys for the boys can be fun. Get yourself a penis-ring to help sustain your erection. You’ll last longer, and it’ll add clitoral thrills for your partner, too.

Oral Afters Once he’s ejaculated, keep stroking his penis, sucking lightly for a minute. Flick your tongue around his glans. Try tying him up first for heightened sensations!

Sexy Shopping Add some aphrodisiacs and food-play items (body chocolate, cream, honey, bananas) to the weekly shopping list to make a dull chore go with a bang.

Roundabout Run your tongue around the perimeter of his balls (better if he’s shaved!), then up his shaft and around the head. Do it over and over until he’s trembling!

Laid on the Line Spice up that business trip with a steamy phone call home. First time? It’s OK to laugh – and remember to disconnect ‘call waiting’!

Play Time Like to include sex toys in your love play? Slip a condom over a dildo or vibrator so you can switch penetrations without having to stop the action!

Hand in Glove Put smooth, round beads inside the tip of the index finger of a lubed latex glove. Gently stroking her G-spot with them as you use your tongue will drive her wild!

Win, Lose or Draw? Have a TV-free evening. Play games and agree that the loser does the winner’s bidding in the bedroom – or anywhere else they want!

Wet ’n’ Wild You may love her juices all over you after oral sex but she may not! Wipe your face on a towel or sheet before your thank-you kiss!

Tongue-tied Keep your tongue firm and run it down the line of hair on his stomach. It can be a huge turn-on! Also, try darting your tongue in and out of his navel.

Yum, Yum! Wash condoms with mild soap to get rid of the rubber taste. Let them air dry, then add a drop of flavoured lube for tastier, safer blow jobs.

Saucy Cinema Cut a hole in the bottom of your popcorn box and get your man to poke his penis through it. No one will know what you’re doing when you reach inside!

Summer Lovin’ In hot weather, ice lollies and ice-cream cones are great to use for teasing and foreplay. Lick them suggestively to let him know you’re in the mood.

Makes Scents Women think their odour can be a turn-off. Reassure her that you love it! If she’s still unsure, suggest a sexy bath or shower together first.

Worth It Leave lingerie on as long as possible! Your fingers and tongue will feel fab through a sexy, sheer bra or pants, and even better when they touch bare flesh!

Read the Cues If she’s lighting candles, taking a bath or reading sexy stories before you make love, take a hint! Offer to do them first or join her!

Is it Over? Many women don’t orgasm from intercourse, and find it can be kind of boring! Suggest you try more oral sex on each other, to keep your sex drive in high gear.

Different Strokes A genital massage will get rid of his stress better than any backrub! Use soft, smooth strokes over his testes with firmer strokes over his shaft.

Phone Zone Surprise him with an erotic phone call at work describing your naughtiest secrets. Need some tips or descriptive phrases? Buy a dirty magazine!

What Mess? Don’t go all girlie and moan about the mess after he’s ejaculated, or complain about a wet spot. Just