Oral Sex

By Carlyle Jansen and Carl Frankel

Oral sex has become a type of sex most people engage in and enjoy. How to do it well, though? This free e-book, written by nationally-known sex educator Carlyle Jansen and award-winning sex journalist Carl Frankel, provides a short and immensely useful how-to, complete with pictures, about how to use your mouth (and tongue and so on) to please male- and female-bodied people. Learn about the Hard Ice Cream, the Pigeon, the Dolphin and the Swirl! And deep-throating, power play, and more.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Mango Garden Press
• Release date: Nov 29, 2019
• ISBN: 9780463924563

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An excerpt from the novel The Unraveling, by Carl Frankel

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Find out what happens when three Earthlings visit a civilization that has a healthy relationship with sex and pleasure!

ORAL SEX: A MANGO GARDEN PRESS SEX SERIES E-BOOK

ABOUT THE AUTHORS OF ORAL SEX

CARLYLE JANSEN is a sex coach, sex educator, writer and video blogger. She is the founder of Good For Her, Toronto’s premiere sexuality shop and workshop center, and producer of the annual Feminist Porn Awards. Since 1995, Carlyle has been teaching workshops about sexual pleasure and sexuality and coaching individuals and couples to help them enhance their sexual lives. She is an invited speaker for medical, health and sexuality professionals at events such as the Intensive Sex Therapy Training program.

Carlyle’s areas of focus include sexual technique and pleasure, youth education, sex and parenting, and sexual challenges. She works with individuals and couples in person and over Skype and Facetime to help them find more pleasure, desire and intimacy in their sexual lives.

You can find her and her work at CarlyleJansen.com. You can also follow her on Facebook and twitter as Carlyle Jansen.

Her free video blogs are on Youtube at goodforherdotcom.

CARL FRANKEL is an award-winning writer. His book Secrets of the Sex Masters won the 2015 AASECT (American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists) national prize for sex-ed book of the year. His novel The Unraveling, is the first volume of a trilogy (The Erotopian Chronicles) about what happens when three Earthlings encounter life on a planet where people have a healthy relationship with sex, pleasure, connection and celebration. He is married to Sheri Winston, author of the award-winning Women’s Anatomy of Arousal. For more information: CarlFrankel.com.

ABOUT THE PUBLISHER

Mango Garden Press is the publishing arm of the Intimate Arts Center, which helps adults develop great sex and relationship skills.

Oral Sex (e-book): © 2019 Carl Frankel. All rights reserved.

Cover Art by Erin Papa (The Turning Mill Graphic Art Studio)

Interior Art by Amy Noseworthy

Table of Contents

Oral Sex

Cultural Norms and Personal Inhibitions

A Matter of Taste

Porn Delusions

What’s Good for the Goose and Good for the Gander

The Ups and Downs of Sixty-Nine

Penis-Specific Techniques

The Fine Art of Deep-Throating

Fellatio-Specific Techniques

Vulva-Specific Techniques

Specific Cunnilingus Techniques

Sexy Summary

The Unraveling

Earth to Erotopia

Vala

Darius

Kri’Zhalee

Jahangir

Jahangir (2)

Oral Sex

by Carlyle Jansen with Carl Frankel

ORAL SEX IS ONE OF THOSE DELICACIES THAT TRULY IS A GIFT since we can’t give it to ourselves, though many have tried. Numerous people do it as a matter of course while others reserve it for special occasions or leave it off the menu entirely. some consider it not ‘real’ sex or not a big deal to perform. Most people, though, consider it a very intimate activity. Wherever you happen to be on the turn-on/turnoff continuum, you probably have strong feelings about oral sex—it’s rarely something people feel neutral about. Maybe you love to give, but resist getting. Maybe it’s the reverse—or maybe you love, dislike or even detest both.

Despite the considerable progress that’s occurred in recent decades, oral sex continues to be culturally fraught. Many have received mixed messages about oral pleasure from society, culture, friends, family and partners, often leaving them with physical or emotional hurdles to overcome. Whatever your beliefs or blocks, oral sex can be a wonderful way to connect and to