No Longer Idealistic but Still Realistic

By Malundo Nicolau Kudiqueba

Humanity needs to sing the universal hymn of love.
The flag of love must be raised in the four corners of the world, symbolizing generosity, solidarity, and unity.
Words with the scent of love are represented on each page. This book combats intellectual malnutrition and challenges everyone to embrace different perspectives of analysis in life.

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse UK
• Release date: Mar 23, 2021
• ISBN: 9781665586252

Malundo Nicolau Kudiqueba

Malundo Kudiqueba was born in Angola and now lives in the United Kingdom. He speaks 5 languages: English, French, Dutch, Portuguese, and Spanish. He studied Health and Social Care and Social Work at the University of Worcester.

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CONTENTS

Acknowledgments

Love

Europe

America

Africa

Asia

America

Europe

Africa

Asia

One Day

Things I Have Been Told Throughout My Life

Men Versus WomeN

The greatness of a country should not be determined solely by its territorial dimensions but also by the nobility of its people.

Reflections

A Priest Is Not A Snitch

Hero

Not All Husbands Should Be The Head Of The Family

One House, One Family And Two Different Ways Of Thinking

I apologize

My words with the scent of love.

Love is a revolutionary sentiment that has the power and authority to change and transform mankind.

To love others is to render public service

I Learn More When:

Everyone has the right to be stupid as long as they do not make others stupid.

Love Should Be Our Priority

Taking a stand for love is more about showing and giving the best of us to others.

It is better to be criticized for having ideas than being praised for never having opinions of your own.

Being praised when we do nothing is the biggest insult we can receive.

Our ideas can cause us major problems.

The world is our temporary home.

Being alive is the greatest gift a person can desire.

There are three types of people.

Some People Want To Be A Friend To Someone Who Is Not Interested In Being Friend To Them

All Decisions We Make In Life Always Benefit And Harm Someone.

Critics Know The Power Of Criticism.

There Is No Worse Thing In Life Than Being Intellectually Dependent On Others.

Things That Only Happened To Me

Confessions Against Your Will

Volunteer On Behalf Of Love

Focus

My Commitment Is With Love.

Loving Others Is An Act Of Courage

A United Family

You Can Live In An Immensely Rich Country And Be Mentally Poor

Being Poor Is Not Cool

Trials Of Life

I Hope This Will Never Happen To You

Love Is Inclusive

The Spectators Of The World

Part-Time Christian

Haters

Speaking Is A Big Responsibility, And We Can Infect The Minds Of Millions Of People With What We Say.

Telling The Truth Is Boring.

Negative Words Are Like Junk Food.

No Friendship With Evil

Wisdom

God Versus Devil

Only The Truth

Action

Difficult Moments Define Our Personality.

The Mouth Is A Lethal Weapon.

Jesus Christ’s Vision For Mankind

Mission

Which Team Are You Playing For?

The Entry Of Perfect People In This Church Is Forbidden.

Finger Pointing

Don’t Applaud Poor Decisions.

Critics Can Help You Achieve Success

I Like To Be Realistic And Not Idealistic.

Identity And Personality

No Matter What They Say

I Got A Problem With You

I Attended A Meeting Where The Business Owner Gave Up His Chair To A Worker Because A Chair Was Missing.

Life

Refuse To Harm Others.

Problems

There Are Several Forms Of Lies:

Human Messages Are Often Seasoned With Lies.

Independent

They Cannot Stop You.

You Are More Than A Winner!!!

I Am The One You Have Been Looking For.

Love Is A Nutritive Substance

Love Shines Even In A Dark Room

The Couple Must Be Prepared Mentally, Psychologically, And Sexually For Marriage

Love Is Part Of Human Identity

No Remorse

Intelligence Or Money

It Is Better To Have A Declared Enemy Than To Have An Enemy Disguised As A Friend.

Our Achievements Depend Exclusively And Solely On Us.

Do Not Get Confused When You Are Praised By 5 People And Criticized By A 100.

Do Not Confuse Pleasure With Happiness

On Your Own.

She Doesn´T Know Me

Achievemets And Accomplisments

Matthew 6:24

Boldness

2 Corinthians 5:7

Celebrating

Matthew 6:33

Commitment

Proverbs 16:3

Compassion

Ephesians 4:32

Dignity

Proverbs 31:25

Diversity

Romans 2:11

Encouragement

Forgiving

Luke 6:37

Generosity And Greatness

Luke 6:38

Honesty

Proverbs 19:1

Independence

1 Peter 2:16

Justice

Proverbs 21:15

Kindness

Proverbs 11:17

Loyalty

Proverbs 18: 24

Mission

John 8:32

Neglect

Hebrews 2:3

Obedience

John 14:15

Prayer

Romans 10:14-15

Quality

2 Timothy 2:15

Responsibility

Galatians 6:5

Standing Up For Others

Proverbs 31:8-9

Truth

1 Corinthians 13:4-6

Unity

1 Peter 3:8

Volunteering

1 Peter 4:10

Wisdom

James 1:5

Yourself

Galatians 5:1

Zeal

Romans 10:2

When Politicians Become Celebrities, Politics Becomes A Comedy.

Evil Is Taking Over The World.

Challenges for Any President:

Good Versus Bad

Evil Has no Nationality.

About the Author

This book is

dedicated to the best psychologist, I have had in my life.

This psychologist did not go to any university, but she gave me the best advice.

This psychologist was my amazing mother, Graça Malundo.

I feel your presence even in your absence.

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

Thanks to my wife Carla, and our children, Daniel and Norton, who inspired me to write this book.

My father Nicolau and my mother Graça, are represented on each page of this book.

Thank you.

LOVE

L- LOYALTY

O- OPPORTUNITY

V- VICTORY

E- ETERNITY

AMERICA, EUROPE, AFRICA AND ASIA

EUROPE

E-EFFECTIVE

U-UNITY

R-RESPONSIBILITY

O-OPPORTUNITY

P-POWERFUL

E-EMPIRE

AMERICA

A-AMBITION

M-MONOPOLY

E- ECONOMY

R- REVOLUTIONARY

I-INVESTMENT

C-CREDIBILITY

A-ATTITUDE

AFRICA

A-ATTRACTIVE

F-FAMILY

R-RESISTANCE

I-IRRESISTIBLE

C-CREATIVITY

A-ABILITY

ASIA

A-ACHIEVEMENT

S-SENSITIVITY

I-IDENTITY

A-AGENDA

The Americans dream.

The Europeans reflect.

The Africans imagine.

The Asians meditate.

The Americans believe in themselves.

The Europeans trust in themselves.

The Africans question themselves.

The Asians reassure themselves.

The Americans are more realistic than idealistic.

The Europeans are more idealistic than realistic.

The Africans are more emotional than sensitive.

The Asians are more sensitive than emotional.

The Americans are communicative.

The Europeans are assertive.

The Africans are interactive.

The Asians are reactive.

The Americans are very selective with their friendship.

The Europeans are very careful with everyone.

The Africans are very approachable.

The Asians are neutral.

The Americans are ambitious.

The Europeans are objective.

The Africans are determined.

The Asians are dedicated.

The Americans are good investors.

The Europeans are good stockholders.

The Africans are good consumers.

The Asians are good in business.

The Americans are the MVPs of the world.

The Europeans are the housekeepers of the world.

The Africans are the cheerleaders of the world.

The Asians are the supportive fans of the world.

The Americans are very personal.

The Europeans are very formal.

The Africans are very informal.

The Asians are very defensive.

Americans are expressive.

Europeans are effusive.

Africans are festive.

Asians are welcoming.

America is seductive.

Europe is majestic.

Africa is exotic.

Asia is vibrant.

Americans are persistent.

Europeans are consistent.

Africans are resilient.

Asians are insistent.

Americans are methodical.

Europeans are strict.

Africans are cautious.

Asians are perceptive.

America shows greatness.

Europe reveals maturity

Africa displays youthfulness.

Asia exhibits sensitivity.

America is always asking and demanding explanations.

Europe is always complaining.

Africa is always lamenting.

Asia is always moaning.

Americans seek profit.

Europeans create solutions.

Africans have good intentions.

Asians are visionaries.

Americans are conventional.

Europeans are compulsive.

Africans are impulsive.

Asians are intuitive.

America has prosperity.

Europe has opportunities.

Africa has potential.

Asia has possibilities.

Americans have a strategic policy for each country.

Europeans like to use diplomacy to solve problems.

Africans like to establish partnerships with other countries.

Asians like to cooperate with everyone.

Americans are possessive.

Europe is in a recession.

Africa is under pressure.

Asia is obsessed.

The Americans promote solidarity.

The Europeans promote generosity.

The Africans promote respectability.

The Asians promote loyalty.

The Americans are confident.

The Europeans are committed.

The Africans are courageous.

The Asians are consistent.

The Americans are always excited.

The Europeans are enthusiastic.

The Africans are cheerful.

The Asians are reserved.

The Americans promote individualism.

The Europeans promote collectivism.

The Africans promote brotherhood

The Asians promote a conservative society.

The Americans like creativity.

The Europeans like credibility.

The Africans like flexibility.

The Asians like reciprocity.

Americans are proud of their past.

Europeans do not feel comfortable talking about their past.

Africans do not reflect on their past.

Asians use their past as an asset.

Most Americans are capitalists.

Most Europeans are liberal.

Most Africans are socialists.

Most Asians are Communists

Americans are patriots.

Europeans are nationalists.

Africans are progressive

Asians are globalists.

Americans speak with authority.

Europeans speak with emotion.

Africans speak with passion.

Asians speak softly.

Americans are liberators.

Europeans are conquerors.

Africans are revolutionaries.

Asians are missionaries

Americans like exclusivity.

Europeans like originality.

Africans like authenticity

Asians like stability.

Americans are opinionated.

Europeans are always anxious.

Africans are always inquisitive.

Asians are impatient.

AMERICA

I have spoken to people from different countries and they all agree on the following twelve things:

1-America acts like a celebrity.

2-America has a diva complex.

3-They act like a DJ who only plays his favourite music and expects everyone else to dance to it.

4-They like to tell other countries what to do but don’t like to be told off.

5-They are very competitive and like challenges.

6-The Americans are the