Playlife: How to Retire Before You’Re Thirty
By Dennis Wall
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In “Playlife” the author sets out in plain language (targeted at his own children) how to design the life that you want to be living and exactly how to achieve that from both a financial and a practical lifestyle perspective. This book covers not only the financial side of becoming wealthy through property and stocks, but also a range of life advice.
From getting promoted to engineering a redundancy, living in happiness with a life partner to getting a divorce; Playlife de-mystifies and simplifies the basic steps needed to achieve the goal of living a fantastic and financially free life.
Everyone seems to have advice for young people. The difference with Playlife is that it tells you HOW to achieve what you want. The subtitle is “how to retire before you’re thirty” but it’s never too late to start. Put these ideas into practice and anyone (no matter how old) can stop working for someone else much sooner that they think!
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Playlife - Dennis Wall
Copyright © 2014 by Dennis Wall.
ISBN: Softcover 978-1-4828-9088-4
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CONTENTS
PREFACE
PART ONE: GENERAL STUFF
Responsibility
Happiness
Fire, Aim
Time Wasters
Who Are You Now?
Decide Who You Want To Be
Decide Where You Want to be (Three Flags)
Alcohol
Banks
Credit Cards
Getting Fit
The Twenty plus Five
Plan
Looking (and Acting) the Part
Hats
Smoking
Eating
Religion
Family and Friends
Life Partners
Time to Leave
Kids
Surviving a Financial Crisis
Superannuation
Get a Job
Education
PART TWO: MAKING MONEY
The Two Sources of Wealth
The General Financial Plan
Property
Stocks
Four Little Secrets to Making Money in the Stock Market:
The first little Secret: Select the Time Frame
The Second Little Secret: Understand the Trend
The Third Little Secret: Select the Appropriate Trading Strategy
The Fourth Little Secret: Stick to the rules
What Stocks to Trade
Technical Analysis
The Four Indicators
The First Indicator
The Second Indicator
The Third indicator
The Fourth indicator
RULE 1
RULE 2
RULE 3
Money Management
Record Keeping
Finding a trade
When to trade
Setting the Entry, Target and a Protective Stop
Executing an Entry and Exit
Managing the Trade
Options and Covered Calls
MACD-H Divergence
PART THREE: PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
The Key
Getting made redundant
Conclusion
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
PREFACE
This book is written for my children. As a predominantly absentee father, I have not had the privilege to bring up most of you. Although we have spent a lot of time together, I have always lived interstate or overseas. Absentee Dads tend to be good time
fathers. Visits are more like holidays than real life and you don’t really get to impart the values and life lessons that you would like. In a way then, this is an attempt to make up for that.
We have actually spent a lot of time discussing many of the things in this book, but I understand that not everyone is ready for a Dads advice when Dad is ready to give it—just ask my own father! So this is a collection of the things we have talked about over the years, put together as a sort of reference manual.
It’s also for my younger kids incase I’m too grumpy an old man to talk through all this with you, when you are old enough to want to know. You may disagree with my thoughts and that’s absolutely fine. This is just my take on life—and how to retire before you are 30 (or any age really). If just one piece of advice is helpful to any of you, then putting it writing will have been worthwhile.
The first part is general stuff. I will cover ways I have tried to deal with some of my own failings as well as the best way I know to live a noble and fulfilling life. I can’t pretend to have got all this right by the way! You kids know as well as anyone that I have messed up a bit along the way but I have conveniently left those bits out of this book! (It’s not an autobiography after all). In some instances it’s a clear case of do as I say, not what I do. Living with this apparent hypocrisy is part of the battle of being a parent—which you will find out soon enough.
The second part is about the simple secrets of becoming wealthy enough to stop working for someone else by the time you’re thirty. If you miss that date by the way, no big deal. The same approach applies at any age (I didn’t start on this plan till I was 40 and then retired at 49) but the sooner you start, the easier it is.
Stocks and property will do it—but you have to use them properly and I try to explain just that. If you like money then part two will be the best part of the book. Some of you don’t I know, so I’ve tried to write about money in as interesting a way as possible. Like it or not, money is the key to getting where you want to go, as well the key to providing for yourself and your family in the future. There will be no pensions or other State support for your generation.
Probably it will make most sense if you read Responsibility
first followed by Happiness
, and then The Key
. I put The Key
at the end as a summary but it can also serve as an introduction so that you know where I am going with all this. After that you can just wander around the pages that are relevant to you at any particular time. It will be more useful if you only read the bits you want when needed, rather than read it all quickly and then throw it out!
This world is in a bit of a mess at present. We are destroying the environment at a shocking pace. It seems that the only economic model my generation knows, doesn’t work anymore and religion is turning more people against each other today than it ever has (which is saying something!) Do what you can to make your own life as good as possible, but always try and do a little bit to improve the world as you go.
Kids, I love you all and admire what you have already achieved in life despite (hopefully not because of) my absence when you were growing up. I hope that this book can help to make your goals even more attainable.
Den (Feb 2014).
PART ONE
32572.pngGENERAL STUFF
Responsibility
The way to achieve the life you want is to take responsibility for it. The victim mentality is all pervasive in our society. People sue the hardware store because the store didn’t warn them that the ladder they purchased could be dangerous if placed in a bath full of water whilst changing a light bulb! Just listen to every whinger on the news who reckons that the government ought to do something
about everything that’s wrong in their lives.
Nobody owes you anything. It is up to you to get on with providing for yourself and future families. If you get pulled up by the police because your tail light is out, is that their fault for being so petty? No it’s your fault for not fixing it. Is it the company’s fault that they don’t pay you enough? No it’s yours—you haven’t demonstrated that you are adding value, or you are too lazy to get a new job. The list goes on. The point is to stop blaming everyone else for everything.
Start taking responsibility for your own life from finances to fitness—for every single action. You can choose how you respond to situations. When things look a bit tough or you are losing your cool, take a deep breath and step back from the situation to gain perspective of the bigger picture. Then ask yourself what action you can take right now to improve things. There is always something even if it’s shut your mouth for half an hour while everyone else cools down! Take that action immediately and the world will be a little bit better place.
Happiness
Many people the world over are struggling just to survive. Working at jobs they hate (if they have a job) they can barely afford the necessities of food and shelter. In this environment, anger just builds up and up until it explodes spreading violence and hatred all over the place.
People hate other people who have more than they do. They turn to crimes of greed and frustration. The jails are full of people who commit stupid, thoughtless crimes mostly because they have no future anyway, so the consequences of their actions are no big deal. Jail is no deterrent because to many it’s not all that different to living outside
.
Many times I notice in the Australian newspapers, the excuse for a violent crime is that the offender was either drunk or under the influence of illegal drugs! Talk about not taking responsibility. What is worse is that this excuse seems to be an acceptable defense to the courts. There is a great example of the lack of individual responsibility being reinforced in a culture through the legal system. Little wonder that the masses take to this excuse with such vigour.
In a developing country with endemic poverty, stealing or begging for a living may truly be an almost inescapable way of life. In developed countries of the free world (like Australia), there is absolutely no excuse for living such a life because there really is an alternative.
If you ask most people in Australia or any other western
country what they seek most, I suspect that the most common answer would be happiness
. (In most Asian countries by the way, for cultural as well as fundamental reasons, the answer is almost always money
). The book stores are clogged with titles like How to Achieve Happiness
. The corporate advertising that surrounds us, sets it for us as a target, and then tells us how their products can achieve it! The US constitution includes the pursuit of happiness as an inalienable right alongside life and liberty!
But if happiness is the goal and everyone is striving to achieve it, then why are so few people actually happy? Look around. Are your friends, your family, your workmates happy? Are you happy? What would it take to make you happy?
Common answers to this question are: more money, a more fulfilling job, travelling, a more understanding partner, a bigger house/car, a boat, living in a warmer climate, not having to work, more sex and the list goes on. I refer to all these as fools goals
. Distant things that you somehow think when achieved will make you happy. But will they?
I have been through this list in my own life. I have changed jobs, got more money, got divorced, bought bigger houses, bought a boat, moved to a warm climate, retired and had more sex (yes parents do have sex!). None of those things made me happy beyond the fleeting glow of any new acquisition.
Now seriously think about this. If what I am saying is true, and the end goal is happiness, then the whole approach to achieving that goal is wrong!
The problem is that happiness is a human emotion and like all emotions, it is transient. No-one can sustain any strong emotion for extended periods of time. You can’t be really angry, excited, sad or anything else for long. Extremes of emotion are deviations from the average or the statistical norm—the center path to which all things naturally gravitate.
The trick then, is to make that center path (your normal lifestyle and emotional situation) a path that makes you happy. In other words consider happiness NOT as a goal in itself but as a natural by-product of the life you live. This is a subtle but important definition that can have a profound effect on the way you live and the goals you set.
Happiness is not the end goal but the natural by-product of the life you live every day.
If you accept this definition of happiness, it has huge implications for everything you do. If happiness is a product of the life you live then you really need to know what you want that life to look like. A way to think about this is to consider how you would like to be living when you are say thirty, or (if you can imagine that far out) fifty years old.
How do you want to be generating your income? Where will you be living, what will you be doing most of the time—travelling, diving, sailing, driving, skiing, painting, singing, playing in a band… . what?
These are not