For All

By Nabelah Al-Neghaimshi

Through life, we live several rolesas mother, father, traveler, job seeker, retiree, etc. Each role has a different scenario, which we play. While we play a role, we forget to enjoy it. We take it more seriously than it should be taken. It is difficult to live with someone who often criticizes and insults others. It is much harder if the critic is you, criticizing yourself.

Who is more precious than a self constantly sticking with you in all conditions. Isnt it yet the time for accepting and getting along with that self with love and reconciliation?

Cruelty will not change the past but rather distresses the present and the future.

In all roles, we deserve to enjoy living and to have a relationship in which each party is a winner and mostly happy.

Through this book, I have reviewed some of our roles in life. My first goal of this book is to invite you to reflect on your life, identify ways of improving it, and find ways to avoid preventable pains.

It is a highlighting of roles in our lives that deserve to be celebrated rather than living them with painful bitterness because of our ignorance and lack of awareness.

I pray to God to let this book be good support for all tired hearts and stressed and overburdened bodies who are grasping for a few words that would make them appreciate themselves and feel the value of their presence.

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse UK
• Release date: Aug 7, 2015
• ISBN: 9781504944601

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Contents

Introduction

Chapter 1     For Every Mother and for Every Person Who Plays a Mother’s Role

Chapter 2     For Every Father

Chapter 3     For Every Self

Chapter 4     For Every Girl

Chapter 5     For Every Woman

Chapter 6     For Every Friend

Chapter 7     For Every Retiree

Chapter 8     For Every Traveler

Chapter 9     For Every Job Seeker

Chapter 10   For All Human Beings

At the End

For all the roles of our lives, we deserve to live them with love and happiness. Here, all are winners. "For All" proposes choices and options to achieve that.

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

For All tired hearts and stressed overburdened bodies who are grasping for a few words that would make them appreciate themselves and feel the value of their presence in this life. You are great. You have been created in the best form. You are a divine gift. You deserve good and pleasant things.

Nabelah Al-Neghaimshi

Introduction

In all roles of our lives, we deserve to enjoy living and to have a relationship in which each party is a winner and mostly happy. Even if it is a must to have some problems, it should be limited to accidents and emergencies of life. After both of my books, The Price of Freedom and Let Them Grumble, I have received many comments, questions, and complaints about powerlessness and critical need for the desirability and acceptance of others. Even about the avoidance of their continuous criticism and assessment of performance for all situations, roles, or capacity. In which they need a relationship and role that they feel winning and happiness. Such as a mother, a girl, a friend, an employee, a father, a traveler, an amateur, a student, a young man, a retiree, and so on. Therefore, I felt the depth of the spreading suffering of the need for love, acceptance, and appreciation, which became extreme solicitude and obsession for some. As if it is our duty to have the acceptance and admiration of others as part of our acceptance of ourselves. It is exhausting, life breaking, and impeding for its neglected beautiful things because of our focus on grasping for perfection, idealism, and false acceptance. Thus, I started writing and sending tweets via Twitter under the title of For All. They were characterized by being motivating and encouraging, in addition to spreading the feelings of appreciation and admiration for each role or capacity that we have in our lives. I was surprised and greatly pleased by the wonderful amount of interaction. My tweets have been shared and circulated via Twitter, WhattsApp, and other social networking programs to many Gulf and Arab countries. I was amazed by the replies and the extent of happiness I have received from them. Therefore, I decided to discuss it in more detail. Reading this motivational book will assist in bearing part of our responsibilities toward ourselves for appreciating and