How To Use Love Language To Enhance All Your Relationships

By Edwina Riddhi

Discover How to Harness the Power of the Five Love Languages to Overhaul All Your Relationships, Strengthen Your Bond with Your Loved Ones and Get Along Better with The People in Your Life!

 

Do you find it difficult to maintain healthy and beneficial relationships with the people in your life? Are your relationships dying a slow painful death because of your lack of interpersonal communication and relationship skills?

 

If you answered yes to at least one question above, then this book is for you.

 

In this definitive guide, you're going to discover the ultimate blueprint to forging solid, trust-filled relationships packed with good vibes with the people in your life.

Whether it's platonic, romantic, familial, or professional, this book will equip you with the knowledge you need to practically apply the power of the five love languages to transform all your relationships for the better.

 

Here's a snippet of what you're going to discover in this insightful book:

 

• How to love yourself properly and practice the five languages of love on yourself
• How to improve your relationship with your family members and 7 proven tips to strengthen familial bonds
• 7 surefire ways to improve your relationship with your parents even if you aren't on good terms with them
• The simple 4-step technique to build better relationships and stronger bonds with your siblings
• 4 proven ways to improve your relationship with your children and get them to trust you enough to share their deepest secrets with you
• How to easily figure out your partner's love language and strengthen your romance by loving them the way they want to be loved
• 6 foolproof ways to adjust and thrive when your love language is different from that of your lover or spouse
• How to use the five love languages in your workplace and increase job satisfaction without coming across as weird or awkward...and much more!

Deeply insightful and packed with tons of practical advice, this book has everything you need to improve your people skills and take all your relationships to next level.

 

Ready to build mutually beneficial relationships in your home, work and love life that stands the test of time? Scroll to the top of the page and click the "Buy Now with 1-Click" button to get started TODAY!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Revaz Books
• Release date: Aug 10, 2021
• ISBN: 9798201912864

Edwina Riddhi

Edwina Riddhi is a Relationship Coach who lives in London with her husband, four children and a small menagerie of pets: including a Thai Ridgeback called Miles, Tandy the cat, a rabbit called Archie and a tank full of fish!

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Introduction

No two persons are the same. Similarly, everyone gives and receives love in different ways. Understanding the right way to love the people in your life is essential. Sometimes, you can get so lost that you only see and hear what you want. Hence, this is why learning the Five Love Languages comes in so handy.

The Five Love Languages, compiled by Gary Chapman, is one of the ultimate guides to understanding how the love language works with intimate relationships; however, the love language has evolved beyond being utilized for romantic relationships and can apply to every kind of relationship in your life.

Learning the love languages, how they give, and preferring to receive love enhances the relationship with people in your lives. You also develop a deeper understanding of what their needs really are—not what we assume they are. Likewise, learning the love languages of your colleagues, friends, family, spouse, and partner, etc., will help you communicate more effectively, take things less personally, empathize more effectively, master dispute resolution, increase your romantic friendship, and become more attentive in your relationship.

This book aims to help you gain a deeper understanding of what love languages are and how they can boost communication, enhance compatibility, and strengthen the different relationships in your life, especially with yourself.

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Chapter One: Self-Love

Love can take different dimensions in our lives, from romantic to platonic love between family and friends. However, self-love, a form of appreciation for yourself that stems from actions that support a different part of your growth, is often neglected. It is also having a high level of esteem for your own needs and desires and not sacrificing your happiness and well-being to please others. Self-love means putting yourself first and not settling for less than you deserve. Because of our individuality,  every unique idea of self-love differs. We all take care of ourselves in different ways, so we must figure out what self-love looks and feels like to us, which is an integral part of our mental health.

You must understand that the way you treat yourself is essential, especially when no one is looking. Self-love goes beyond taking yourself on a spa date or going on a shopping spree. Although many individuals do this to include the five love languages coined by Gary Chapman, it doesn't capture the whole essence of self-love. In his book, Chapman outlined five love languages on how to experience and express love romantically. However, these can also be directed toward self-care and fostering a healthier relationship with yourself.

Gary Chapman broke down his concept into five categories:

●  Words of affirmation,

●  Acts of service,

●  Receiving gifts,

●  Quality time,

●  And physical touch.

Chapman's idea was originally meant for only romantic relationships. However, with time, the idea behind the love languages evolved. Now, it focuses more on your relationship with yourself than on an external relationship; it can guide you into self-awareness; understanding your own needs, both physically and mentally; and continuous practice of healthy boundaries for your growth.

How To Love Yourself Right

The importance of self-love cannot be over-emphasized. We all understand the effect of self-love on our persona, confidence, mental health, and our lives in general. So, why not figure out what is essential for you and what is not? To understand your self-love language, you must first find out your primary love language. It is possible that your self-love language is the same as your specific love language, or it could be something entirely different.

Regardless of your self-care love language, here are ways to love yourself using the Five Love Languages.

Words of affirmation

Words of affirmation are uplifting words, compliments, and words that gratify your being. If your self-love language are words of affirmation, you must watch how you talk to yourself because you are listening. Practicing words of affirmation on yourself is like receiving a compliment from yourself to yourself. On bad days or days when you are going through tough times, you must be aware of what you say to yourself, use words of encouragement and be kind. For situations where you make a mistake, you mustn't talk down or use negative words to diminish your good works even when an error has occurred.

People whose self-love language are words of affirmation are those who thrive when they hear compliments, knowing they are doing something right. Encouraging and complimenting yourself makes you feel loved and appreciated.

Change isn't easy. Still, you can start by making a conscious effort. Develop the habit of declaring daily positive affirmations about yourself. You can take a part of your life that needs improvement and begin to work on it, make sure you take a look at yourself in the mirror, smile at yourself, and give yourself encouraging words and compliments. Ensure