It's Hard to Do Good
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If something is hard, does that mean God is not in it?
Someone once told me, "Doing the will of God is like a hot knife through butter." I'm not sure what Bible they were reading, but that hasn't been my Christian experience for half a century. Unfortunately, much of what is preached from today's pulpits emphasizes all the benefits t
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It's Hard to Do Good - Kenneth H. McGaffic
It’s
Hard
to Do
Good
Kenneth H. McGaffic
It’s Hard to Do Good
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Copyright © 2021 by Kenneth H McGaffic
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DEDICATION
Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.
—Proverbs 18:22, KJV
This book is dedicated to Linda, my lovely wife for more than four decades. I better interject here, we met and married young. One of my favorite sayings is when I met Linda, I saw a diamond in the rough. She is quick to respond, when I saw you, I saw a lump of coal.
God’s been chipping away on both of us now for many years. Linda is a great wife, mother, business partner and most of all, my best friend.
It’s also dedicated to my two beautiful daughters, Erin and Kelly. I don’t know if a dad could be prouder than I am of my daughters. They love Jesus and are now wives and mothers of their own families. But to me, they’ll always be the little girls I tucked in bed every night asking me to read them a book. After all these years, I think I can still recite their favorite books from memory.
ACKNOWLEDGMENT
This book may have never came to print without the help of Matt Ciampaglione, a longtime employee and friend. Matt was the one who deciphered my chicken scratch
and put it in typed form. I’m sure I could have eventually typed it myself, but my thoughts move quicker than my fingers. It might have been different if in high school had I signed up for typing instead of a food class. The allure of warm chocolate chip cookies won out over the thought of banging away on manual typewriters. I think it still would today.
CONTENTS
Dedication
Acknowledgment
Preface: It’s Hard to Do Good
Chapter 1: Hero to Zero
Chapter 2: The Good Samaritan
Chapter 3: Fear of Man
Chapter 4: Doing Good Intentionally
Chapter 5: Compound Interest
Chapter 6: Use What You Have
Chapter 7: Doing Good Does Not
Always Work Out as Planned
Chapter 8: Doing Good Impacts People
Chapter 9: Orphans From Guatemala
Chapter 10: Receiving Good is Good
Chapter 11: Do They Want Help?
Chapter 12: What Else Does the Bible Say?
Chapter 13: Doing Good to Those
Who Take Advantage of the System
Chapter 14: Three Aspects of a Good Word
Chapter 15: Trying to Do Good Can Be Funny
Chapter 16: Where Do We Go From Here?
Epilogue: Join Me on the Journey - From the Author
About the Author
What would a life be
If it was only to live
A selfish desire to
Get more than give
But to share one’s life daily
With those who have needs
Is to be a true follower
Of the shepherd that leads.
—Kenneth H. McGaffic
PREFACE
It’s Hard to Do Good
It was a typical early spring morning in western Pennsylvania. The weather was unpredictable at best. As I was driving home from my workout at the local YMCA, I saw a few young teens headed to school walking in the rain. As I like to say, I can hit the school with a nine iron (on a good day) from my front yard.
These kids were nearly a mile away from the school. The thought entered my mind to offer these kids a ride to school. It would beat them being soaked for the first class of the day. But just as quickly as the thought entered my head, I quickly dismissed it. A middle-aged man offering to give kids a ride to school, in our society, just doesn’t work anymore. Good intentions can quickly bring misery and heartache through false perceptions. As I continued on my way home I thought, it’s a shame that it’s hard to do good today. Spontaneous acts of charity need to be weighed against legal, cultural, and governmental consequences, often in a split second.
Despite this, the scriptures command us to do good
! I confess I don’t have all the answers. I probably have more questions than answers. But from these thoughts, this book was birthed.
Chapter 1
Hero to Zero
Owning an advertising agency, and co-owning a nationally recognized craft festival with my wife, as well as being a minister, has given me a unique insight into the workings of human nature. One of my favorite sayings is, You can go from hero to zero in a matter of seconds.
What does that mean? Well, whether in your personal life, business world, or ministry, one mistake or misspoken word can ruin your life or career. It’s become more apparent today in our cancel culture
. Though the saying is not original, it’s reality.
Now when he was in Jerusalem at the passover, in the feast day, many believed in his name, when they saw the miracles which he did. But Jesus did not commit himself unto them, because he knew all men, and needed not that any should testify of