The Six Processes Of Personal Development

By Bolum Star

Are you tired of having great ideas and potentials, but you are not getting enough results? You know that you can be better but still struggling to get there quickly? Do you want to grow your productivity and achieve the impossible? Well, You should read this book right away! The Six Processes of Personal Development is an impressive collection of all the top processes designed to move you to the next level. This book is a practical tool that looks into the six core areas of your personal development. Learn how to:Trim of many superficial desires and focus on fewer key desires that drive you to achieve the impossible. Uproot your deepest fear and overcome past failures. Increase your influence in the digital social space. Fuse the power of meditation and imagination to give yourself an extra advantage. Creatively use your mind with a great understanding of mindsets and mind systems. Learn how to build global prominence from the comfort of your bedroom and lots more. The principles, insights and life-changing processes in this book will give you that push you have been waiting for. The Six Processes in this book are converted into six chapters, as follow: 1 - The emotional processes. 2 - The digital social Influence. 3 - Personal practices of success. 4 - Creative use of the mind. 5 - Wealth creation (Abundant Living). 6 - Fulfilling great destinyThe primary reason for writing this book is because of you. Yes! Your digital value has tremendously to the point where you have to do something about you deliberately. Most companies want to get a bite of your user data because it is all about you. Your preferences, choices, purchasing power etc., are inexhaustible resources. If you can retake a closer look at yourself and apply these processes, you will thank me later.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Bolum Star
• Release date: Feb 8, 2021
• ISBN: 9781005507275

Bolum Star

Bolum Star Chinedu is a Multitalented Digital Content Creator, Bestselling Author, Coach, Speaker, Songwriter, Computer Scientist, Husband and Father. He is a visionary with in-depth knowledge and passion for personal leadership development. His life goal is to to bring out the best in people.A profound teacher and dynamic leader with a digital mindset, who is committed to helping people grow. His versatility and expertise inspire those in the tech and digital space while his humility endears him to family and friends and colleagues alike. In a nutshell, he is an encyclopedia of tech solutions.Called into youth leadership at 17 years old, Bolum Star Chinedu excelled tremendously and quickly became highly sought after in personal development, leadership and career choices. He now has over 25 years of experience in leading and helping people bring out the best in them across all level.His love for computer technology drove him to study computer science, and he is the CEO of Smart Depot NG one of the fastest-growing tech YouTube channels in Nigeria. Please stay connected with him on all major social media handle @bolumstar.

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The Six Processes

Of Personal Development

Bolum Star

Copyright © 2021 by Bolum Star

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Process #1 - the emotional process

1.1 desire: the starting point of greatness

1.2 face your fears - overcoming your deepest fears

1.3 anger - the volcanic emotion

1.4 the thin line between love and lust

Process #2 - social influence

2.1 the shift in control

2.2 the big tech, ecosystems and social influence

2.3 pick your poison

2.4 the illusion of privacy

2.5 tools of influence

Process #3 - personal practices (of success)

3.1 personal daily meditation

3.2 the act of looking inwards

3.3 the act of maintaining balance

3.4 personal liability characteristic (plc)

3.5 personal relationship (pr): everything comes to you through a ship

Process #4 - creative use of the mind

4.1 mindsets and systems

4.2 the smart rule

4.3 the subtlety of negativity - story of two frogs

4.4 mind systems 2: information storage and retrieval system

4.5 value system: value implant and transfer

Process #5 - wealth creation (abundant living)

5.1 global prominence! Manufactured in my backyard, used all over the world

5.2 streams in the desert

5.3 self-education in wealth creation – do it yourself!

5.4 bolum’s law of money i – develop money-making skills

Process #6 - the inside man and fulfilling purpose

6.1 introducing the take-it-all man

6.2 the cursed cain that built a great city

6.3 the history makers - zelophehad’s daughters

6.4 left to die with her baby - the hagar saga!

6.5 find a tangible piece of fulfilment in every day.

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About the author

Introduction

The Six Processes is an impressive if not intriguing collection of the top six processes that have to be intentionally applied to bring out the best in you. Movement, respiration, growth, reproduction, excretion, and nutrition are six life processes that all living organisms perform. They happen to you once you are alive. However, to get the best out of life, let me introduce you to a new dimension of six intentional processes. Why these six processes?

Your true value! If I tell you that you are as valuable as a goldmine and diamond field put together, will you believe that? Let me explain it using data - user data. User data has become the most valuable commodity in this internet age, and it is all due to you - the user. Your unique taste, preferences, loyalty, capacity to grow, ability to spend money (for the rest of your life), etc., are inexhaustible resources. Are you getting what I mean when I say your real value?

Everything is after you! Systems, ecosystems, processes, strategies, company policies, adverts, marketing, to name a few, they are all after you because you are that valuable. If you bring it into the digital world, you are a lot of things. You are a prospect to many, a view, a click, a conversion, a target, a follower, a loyalist, a fan, a buyer, a consumer, a target audience, a customer, the list is endless. How can you be all these and don’t know that you are precious in this digital age? Anyway, my focus is not merely on your value in the digital age.

I want you to realise how multiple systems have intentionally set up processes all after you. From the music you hear, the videos you watch, the emails you read or delete, the products you buy or view, to the TV shows you care about - all these were intentionally created and robust processes put in place to make sure that it really gets to you. Wow! You and I can do nothing about these systems and their operations, but it all comes down to you. If all these things are after you, how is it that you are not after yourself? Since you are this valuable, you have to intentionally apply these processes that bring out the best in you, and that’s what the six processes are all about.

PROCESS #1 - THE EMOTIONAL PROCESS

When it comes to Personal Development, it is the accumulation of little things that matter most. Something that can easily be overlooked, suppressed or ignored, yet it dictates our daily lives’ tempo. Emotion is one of them, if not the top. Can you go for a few hours without expressing some feelings? Our emotions could be asking some questions, seeking answers, responding to stimuli, or reacting to a need. Oftentimes, we try hard to cover it up and act like everything is okay. However, suppressing emotions will cause more harm in the future. It has to be processed; else, it spills into your decisions or actions and creates undesired results.

Have I told you how much power your emotion carries? Emotions have caused wars to erupt among nations and thousands of lives lost; it has erased kingdoms and ruined countless lives. Imagine having this amount of power in your life right now, and you are not yet processing it into something special? Well, that’s what we are here to do. The beginning point of personal development is controlling your emotions. This is necessary if you always want to be on top of the game.

These reasons and more are sufficient to make us take a closer look at the emotional process. Let’s be clear, it won’t happen overnight. It might take some time, but if applied continually, you will start feeling the euphoria of being in charge of yourself. You must make a resolute decision, look inwards and ask yourself, can I be better than this? And why have I not started doing something about it? You will always find some excellent answers to why you haven’t started doing something about it, but those little excuses will keep holding your potentials hostage until you revolt. My earnest desire is to create a revolution inside you with this book. To make you see the power in you, and start a process that will bring out the best in you.

1.1 DESIRE: THE STARTING POINT OF GREATNESS

Desire is the most underrated emotion yet, in my opinion, the most powerful. I call desire the starting point of greatness since we all have it in abundance, why are we not all great? Because life is not fair. Life sometimes hands out packages based on how bad do you want it. In the end, not all of us want it badly. All of us have desires; in fact, to be human is to desire what we do not have. Desire motivates us in many important ways: physical desire, for example, is called hunger or thirst; intellectual desire is called curiosity; sexual desire is called lust; economic desire is called consumer demand. Remove these expressions of desire, and human life as we know it would cease to exist. A single desire in your heart can change the whole world, and yes, you are that powerful.

Everything around us was designed to feed off human desires. Our culture in general and our economy, in particular, are built on our desire for things and experiences we do not have. Our current technologically driven environment is designed to harvest the desires of the nations. It keeps giving us what we like, and we keep coming back for more - we are wired like that. To avoid the law of diminishing returns - which simply means that if you are given the same thing over and over, you will get bored - technology keeps modifying the same thing we desire and present it as a newer or latest model.

The practice of the latest cars, phones, household electronics, the newest models, and all was carefully crafted because the power of your desire is insatiable. Therefore, they have to keep feeding your appetite, not with the same thing, but with a little modification, and then tag it the latest/newest model you strongly desire. Isn’t it obvious now that you are living in a world controlled by desires? Since desire is numerous and common to all, could it be one of the reasons why you haven’t taken your desires more seriously? Who else knows about the power of your desire?

The tower of babel is a famous story in the Christian circle about how men gathered together to build a building that extends from earth to heaven. Take