Treat Him Like a King

By F. M. Mhlophe

Treating your man like a king is a must! Giving your man the royal treatment after he chooses to love you is a guarantee that your relationship will last long. We all know that no one is perfect, and you are not perfect either. However, as a good partner you should always double the effort and let your man feel like he’s royalty. Now, if you are wondering if you treat your man this way or not, don’t worry, this book explains it all.

There is a saying, “If you treat your man like a king, he will treat you like a queen”. This is true. Treat others the same way you want them to treat you. If you want to be his queen, treat him the way that true royals treat their king. If you want him to behave like an amazing angel, create heaven for him. After all, angels don’t live in hell. Eventually, a man who is given the respect and care he deserves will give back far more than what he receives. Don’t be afraid to take risks just to make him to be happy, and remember that it’s the effort that counts.

• Language: English
• Publisher: F. M. Mhlophe
• Release date: Jul 16, 2020
• ISBN: 9781005669058

F. M. Mhlophe

Frans Mhlophe is currently a Senior Financial Analyst: Costing & Control at Nissan South Africa, international inspirational speaker, author, educator, leadership mentor, and consultant for various government departments and businesses. He is the founder and CEO of MEGA Speakers and Authors (Pty)Ltd: A company with a mandate of building speakers and authors. Travelling extensively throughout the world, Frans Mhlophe addresses critical issues affecting the full range of human, social and spiritual development. He has written and published several books, including challenges of life, Relationships Mistakes to avoid, 21 Principles of Success and Greatness, Sex Pleasures and Pains, You Can Become Wealthy.

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Treat Him Like a King

Frans Mhlophe

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Thanksgiving

1. Honour God First

2. Help Him to Honour God

3. Meet His Needs

4. Make Him Look Attractive

5. Don’t Correct Him Like a Child

6. Make His Dreams Yours

7. Make Him Your Treasured Friend

Introduction

Quite often we are taught to fall in love and marry a perfect partner who compliments us and loves us unconditionally. This creates a high expectation when we get into relationships. We expect to fall in love and marry an emotionally mature, perfect partner who will remain romantic and caring. But this mentality may result in us missing the point that men have flaws in certain areas.

If you want to fall in love and marry a superman, you better change your thinking because in real life there is no such person. You must face the facts and understand that no one is born perfect. If you do this, you will not be disappointed when you notice that your partner doesn’t automatically know how to love you unconditionally. After all, God commanded husbands to love their wives so they obviously don’t all do it instinctively (Ephesians 5:25). Love doesn’t grow by itself. Love is the fruit of the Spirit. This means that love must be nurtured.

Once you grasp this, you will understand that your man will make mistakes, and he is not a flawless leader. Always keep this in mind - he is human. If you do this you will not let everything that is good about him be overshadowed by the disappointment and fear of feeling that you are in love with a man who is weak. The fact that you fell in love with him in the first place means that deep down within you, you were convicted that you could build a bright future with him. Therefore, no matter what weaknesses you have realised in him, you should help him to become a better man.

In this book I want to explain to you that you can turn your partner’s weaknesses into treasure if you

can understand your role in your relationship. You can make him a king and honour him! It all takes understanding. Understand that you are in love with a man who really needs the right kind of wife (not necessarily the perfect one) to help him grow into the king you want.

No woman falls in love with and marries the man of her dreams. Every woman helps the man she marries become the man of her dreams. Your king is not born or prepared for you. You have a role to