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Shame and Guilt - Gerhart Piers
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SHAME AND GUILT
A PSYCHOANALYTIC AND A CULTURAL STUDY
GERHART PIERS, M.D.
Staff Member, The Institute for Psychoanalysis Chicago, Illinois
and
MILTON B. SINGER, PH.D.
Professor of the Social Sciences The College of the University of Chicago, Chicago, Illinois
FOREWORD BY ROY R. GRINKER, M.D.
Table of Contents
Contents
Table of Contents 4
Foreword 5
Acknowledgments 6
Part I — SHAME AND GUILT 7
1 — Guilt and Shame 7
2 — Structure of Shame 12
3 — Ego-Ideal and Super-Ego 13
4 — Guilt-Shame Cycles 16
5 — Pathology and Phenomenology 17
6 — Masochism in Guilt and Shame 20
7 — Character Formation 22
8 — The Question of Onset 23
9 — Therapeutic Considerations 24
10 — Cultural Problems 26
Part II — SHAME CULTURES AND GUILT CULTURES 27
1 — Introduction 27
2 — Internal vs. External Sanctions 29
3 — Psychometric Data on Shame and Guilt in American Indian Cultures 33
4 — Psychoanalytic vs. Cultural Interpretations of Guilt Cultures 41
5 — Summary and Conclusions 47
REQUEST FROM THE PUBLISHER 49
Foreword
NO BETTER SELECTION could be made for the first psychiatric monograph of the American Lecture Series than this study of shame and guilt. Both terms have been loosely used interchangeably although each stands for feelings derived from special early experiences that have influenced different psychological forces. Each is associated with a different intrapsychic pattern and probably contributes to a characterological type. An understanding of these differences is necessary for the development of adequate therapeutic procedures for the sick individual and for the accurate analyses of cultures.
The combination of psychoanalytic and anthropological contributions to understanding of the same phenomena is particularly fitting in the discussion of shame and guilt anxiety. Both are instilled in varying proportions in individuals by the forces of their culture through pressures and sanctions imposed on quantitatively susceptible energy systems; in turn the resulting character structures accrete to the cultural attitudes of the next generation. Such a transactional circular process is of great significance in this age of increasing mastery of the physical world, the results of which are utilized by the irrational forces of human nature and increase man’s anxieties.
The bewildered focus of an attack to produce a change in humans—a lessening of all forms of overcompensatory aggressiveness—is the American mother who has been badgered by child-guidance mentors, first in the direction of rigid scheduling and now in permissive self-demand.
However, our culture puts a premium on achieving through competition to be, or to have, the best, which is conducive to internal shame or an external sense of inferiority, and at the same time imposes moral, religious, and filial responsibilities which result in a sense of guilt. Each secondarily leads to reactions, defensive against personal anxiety, but aggressive or masochistic within the social group. In what manner may this circular process be altered—it matters not whether through social change, altered child-rearing or treatment of individuals—is an important question implied by this timely and scholarly monograph.
ROY R. GRINKER
Acknowledgments
I WISH TO THANK the following for reading Part I and for offering many valuable suggestions, some of which I could incorporate into the final draft: Dr. Therese Benedek, who also formally discussed Part I in its original presentation to the Chicago Psychoanalytic Society in November, 1950 and to whose encouragement I feel particularly indebted; Dr. Franz Alexander, whose earlier statement of the problem is used as the starting point for parts of my thesis; Miss Helen Ross, Dr. Paul Kramer, Dr. Elizabeth Zetzel, Dr. Raymond De Saussure, the last three for their thoughtful discussions of my paper; Dr. Roy R. Grinker, who first suggested publication in the present form and who offered many helpful criticisms and suggestions; Dr. Eduardo Weiss; and last but not least, I want to thank my wife, Dr. Maria Piers, who contributed largely to this study, particularly from her knowledge and experience in child development and anthropology.
GERHART PIERS
I am indebted to Prof. Robert Havighurst of the University of Chicago for his kindness in making available to me his unpublished studies of American Indian children.
MILTON B. SINGER
SHAME AND GUILT
Part I — SHAME AND GUILT
A Psychoanalytic Study
By
GERHART PIERS
1 — Guilt and Shame
OF ALL THE more organized forms of intrapsychic tension, those manifested in the feelings of guilt and shame are possibly the most important ones, not only in emotional pathology, but quite generally in ego development, character formation and socialization. Although they have been recognized in their importance by the great majority of modern psychologists, it is quite surprising to find that they are usually neither clearly differentiated nor adequately defined. This is particularly true for the feeling of shame, its phenomenology, genetics and dynamics.
In order to delineate both concepts, it seems advisable to start with the more largely accepted views held in regard to guilt feelings. Briefly restated, they are: the dynamically important sense of guilt remains as such unconscious, although the concomitant anxiety becomes conscious. The sense of guilt is generated by the Super-Ego. Without the formation of such an internal authority, psychological guilt
does not occur. (For brevity’s sake, we shall in the following frequently say guilt
instead of guilt feelings