Pregnancy and Fibromyalgia
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Are you wondering if your symptoms will be better or worse during pregnancy? If you'll experience a flare up after delivery? What nursing with Fibromyalgia might be like? Have you thought about what coping mechanisms you'll utilise during pregnancy?
When Melissa became pregnant with her first son, her disappointment at the lack of resources about pregnancy with Fibromyalgia inspired her to share her experiences and research as new information became available. In 2016, while pregnant with her second son, she utilised this information and found pregnancy much easier than before.
With a passion for research, health and wellness, Melissa combines her findings (both research and anecdotal evidence) with personal experience.
Melissa Reynolds shares her journey through her blog Melissa vs Fibromyalgia and on Twitter @thefibromama. She lives in Auckland, New Zealand, with her husband and two young sons.
Melissa Reynolds
I am a mama fighting to be well despite Fibromyalgia. I have written about my journey for the past several years on my blog melissavsfibromyalgia.com and am the author of Pregnancy and Fibromyalgia and Melissa vs Fibromyalgia: My Journey Fighting Chronic Pain, Chronic Fatigue and Insomnia. With a combination of research, experience and informal surveys, my mission is to help other people not lose as long as I did to this beast of an illness.
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Pregnancy and Fibromyalgia - Melissa Reynolds
Disclaimer
None of the content specified in this book is to be treated as medical advice and not as a replacement for a professional healthcare physician. I am not an expert in Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome or Myofascial Pain Syndrome. I am an expert in my experience. I share my experiences and research to help you be your own advocate and to make the experience of this illness more visible.
You will note the expectation that you will do your own research. I provide the information so that you can read it and discuss it with your doctor. This enables you to make informed choices and be part of the decisions that affect you and your baby.
Congratulations!
You’re a Fibro Parent
(Or Want to Be)
If you’ve had Fibromyalgia (or any similar chronic illness) for any amount of time, you likely already know that there is no magic pill. No one else can do the work for you. You have probably built a crap-load of resilience; you know yourself and your boundaries (I know, I’m still working on this); and you work hard to be well every day. Additionally, you can’t take a day off.
However, the good news is that this will help you with pregnancy.
It’s a marathon, but it’s a struggle with an end date.
I can give you tips for what worked for me, you can read about Fibromyalgia and pregnancy, and you can read (the practically non-existent but slowly multiplying information) about pregnancy with Fibromyalgia, but in the end, it is you putting one foot in front of the other.
That’s how we live, right?
It is my hope that this book will help you to get through your pregnancy, or help you to see that a family can be achievable with Fibromyalgia. I gather research, my experience and anecdotal experience together in key areas in this book: pregnancy, nursing and having tiny children.
It isn’t as simple as doing everything I did; human beings are complex, and Fibromyalgia magnifies this complexity. Where I found pregnancy made my symptoms worse, others have found it gave them a symptom holiday. Where I found nursing a major energy drain, others managed to feed happily for over 12 months.
Whatever place on the spectrum you are on, it is my hope that something here will help you on your journey. I hope you get to enjoy the miraculous event that making a baby is.
Because it truly is spectacular.
Fibromyalgia and Pregnancy:
The Literature
There is a disappointing lack of literature on pregnancy and Fibromyalgia.
Doctors can’t seem to decide if pregnancy makes Fibromyalgia symptoms worse or better. I have met a pain specialist who says that pregnancy doesn’t impact Fibromyalgia or vice versa.
I beg to differ.
Your body is a whole entity. What affects one part has an impact on the rest. For example, worsening sleep due to back pain, which is triggered, in part, by fibro and pregnancy, causes more pain and more fatigue.
Pregnancy is a big energy drainer; those with Fibromyalgia just don’t have much to begin with. I’ve provided a few pertinent articles below and summarised the key learning from my reading.
Here’s a few key articles I’ve found:
1. A study entitled The Effect of Reproductive Events and Alterations of Sex Hormone Levels on the Symptoms of Fibromyalgia (1997) found that most of the women studied found the third trimester worsened their symptoms, that the Fibromyalgia had no adverse effect on the outcome of the pregnancy or the baby’s health, and the premenstrual symptoms were reported worse in 72% of patients.
2. Jacob Teitelbaum, MD, Medical Director of the Fibromyalgia and Fatigue Centers and author of important Fibromyalgia treatment book From Fatigued to Fantastic (2007), wrote an article about pregnancy with Fibromyalgia, Pregnancy in Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and Fibromyalgia, on The Environmental Illness Resource. In it, he recommends supplements to support pregnancy and medicines to avoid. Generally, I love Dr T., but his assumption that most women experience an improvement of symptoms during pregnancy was very wrong for me. He also states that he doesn’t believe breastfeeding to be too tiring, but I found it to be very energy draining.
3. The article Fibromyalgia and Pregnancy: Expert Q&A on Healthline discusses pregnancy and Fibromyalgia, acknowledging the difficulty that arises for women with Fibromyalgia, particularly until the baby sleeps better.
4. Webmd’s article Fibromyalgia and Pregnancy (2016) highlights the lack of studies on women with Fibromyalgia during pregnancy and the increase in pain: "There are few studies on fibromyalgia