Own Your Tomorrow: 14 Steps to Prepare for Love: Relationship and Dating Advice for Women Book, #13
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Own Your Tomorrow 14 Steps to Prepare for Love
Are You Even Prepared for Love?
Are You Tired of the Dating/Breaking Up Cycle?
The shocking truth why most of us are single is because we are not ready to love!
Hi I'm Gregg and I am the author who talks directly to my readers everyday.
250,000+ Books sold says I can help you find a great guy!
Many of us leap into dating, not really ready to love or be loved. We don't believe in ourselves. We don't really think we're worthy of a good person. We settle for the first person who comes along and shows interest.
This isn't how it should be! If you want to successfully enter the dating scene, whether you are 18 or 80, you need to prepare yourself first. I have devised the ultimate guide to getting ready for love in my book, Own Your Tomorrow: 14 Steps to Prepare for Love. These 14 steps, which are quick and easy to read and understand, guide you through the preparation stage. You will learn many things about yourself during your journey. You will have many opportunities to begin to own your tomorrow!
In Own Your Tomorrow, you will be guided through the process of:
- Creating a chick retreat (your counter to the man cave)
- Developing and envisioning your life vision
- Simplifying and cleansing your current environment
- Becoming a positive person, eyes fixed on the future
- Living outside your comfort zone
- How spirituality can help you find love
- Believing in yourself
- Understanding men
- And much, much more!
In Part 2 of Own Your Tomorrow, you will be awestruck with my 19 Rules for Getting and Keeping a Guy. In this section of the book, you will find insight on setting boundaries, compromise, vulnerability, passion, sex and staying out of the dreaded friend zone. These are powerful rules, many of which go against a woman's normal instincts, but all of which help you to become even more appealing to your man.
I am so excited to have written this book for you. I have wanted to pull together many of the things I tell my coaching clients into one place for a long time, and Own Your Tomorrow does this. It allows me to provide all of my readers with the valuable dating tips my coaching clients have had success with over the last few years.
What are you waiting for? Read my hundreds and hundreds of reviews! My dating advice for women works. I change lives for the price of a Starbucks cup of coffee! Hit the Buy Now button now and let me help you! My dating advice is guaranteed or return my book after 7 days!
About Gregg
Gregg is Boston's top dating coach. He teaches women how to understand the male mind and find love by becoming a woman of value. Read ALL his Best Sellers like; To Date a Man, You Must Understand a Man, Who Holds The Cards Now?, The Social Tigress, Power Texting Men and How to Get Your Ex Back Fast.
It's Time - Let's Take a Journey!
Gregg Michaelsen
“Build Yourself and He Will Come” It has come to Gregg’s attention that you have over-complicated the male mind. He knows this because he includes his email address in every book and you reach out to him! He reads your emails and replies to every email, hoping to make a meaningful difference in your life! You’re also a busy woman who doesn’t have time to read a book which is 50% fluff, 25% stuff you don’t understand (because you’re not a therapist) and 23% information you can find with a simple internet search. You are a woman whose time is valuable. Gregg’s books are quick and to the point. The information provided is put into the easiest terms to understand and he leaves out the fluff! Should you read Gregg’s books? • Are you tired of being used by men? • Have you had enough first dates? • Is your relationship great and you want to keep it that way? • Do you want to find Mr. Right, once and for all? • Have you just come out of a relationship? • If you look at yourself honestly, can you say your dating confidence could use a boost? If you’ve answered “YES!” to even one of these questions, you should read his books! Learn how to navigate the male mind with my many tips on dating, communication and building confidence. Understand the mistakes of the past and leave them there – in your past! Your dating future is bright when you bump up that dating confidence and learn to understand the male mind! Gregg continues to research dating and can be found on most Friday or Saturday nights hanging out in a local venue, talking to groups of women, helping them with their dating problems! Visit Gregg at WhoHoldsTheCardsNow.com and become a believer, tens of thousands have!
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Own Your Tomorrow - Gregg Michaelsen
I never found a companion that was so companionable as solitude.
HENRY DAVID THOREAU
LineEvery guy has, or at least tries to have, his own Man Cave. We all get a chuckle out of this place, but the truth is this is a more powerful place than you may have imagined. The Man Cave is where a guy is allowed to be himself and have his fun – without you. You, my dear, need a Chick Retreat! You are welcome to call it something different.
Your Chick Retreat is where you go to feel safe and calm. Much like the Man Cave, this is a place all yours. No Men Allowed! No negative stuff is allowed in the Chick Retreat. Here, only good things happen. This is where healing and positive attitude advancement happens. This is where you re-set.
This retreat can exist in multiple places, but your main retreat should be in or very near your home. It should be somewhere close enough to go to in a pinch. Mine is in my indoor hot tub room because I live in the city. When I lived in the country, it was in my backyard, on top of a large boulder. Secondary spots can work too, like a friend’s house or even a table with your local masseuse. Regardless of where it is, set it up.
When I enter my hot tub room, I dim the lights, close the door, and settle into the tub. I take multiple deep breaths and play new age music in the background. This is my decompress mode. I clear my mind and meditate. Once I hear the slam of the door, I know where I am and there is a clear change inside me. I am relaxed. Nothing, I mean nothing toxic comes through that door. Yes, my mind wants to wander and think about what is bothering me, and there is always plenty, but I pull back into my zone.
After ten to thirty minutes, I come out and relax in my chair, located in the same room. Sometimes at this point, I might brainstorm ideas for future books or I might just have a glass of wine and day dream. Other times, I have friends over and we crank tunes and smoke cigars. This is your room, there are no rules except one - it is always a special and happy place.
The power of your chick retreat is incredible and until you set one up under these pretenses, you will never know what I’m talking about. It becomes a very powerful, and even spiritual place for you to advance your thinking. Life changes occur in this special retreat.
Challenge
Set up this special place and declare it your Chick Retreat. Call it whatever you want. Set it up with whatever you like: candles, incense, maybe some music. Use whatever makes it comfortable to you and your guests. If you live in a studio, set up a section of it. Next, clear your thoughts and relax in it. When negative thoughts enter your mind, and they will, clear them out. Keep fighting the negatives until the positives win over. They will as you break free of old habits.
Reward
Dedicate at least 30 minutes to this retreat as soon as you have it set up! Use this first visit to your retreat as an awakening. Go in, close your eyes, focus on your breathing and congratulate yourself on taking a great step toward love! Lock out the world and relax!
Review Step #1
Having a quiet, positive space gives you a place to go to reset a bad day
Taking even 10 minutes to yourself for positive thought is empowering
Keeping your Chick Retreat at or close to home makes it easily accessible – no excuses!
Step02The man who is dissatisfied with himself, what can he do?
HENRY DAVID THOREAU
LineI read a lot of crap every day and I’m sure you do too, but somedays, I come across something which makes a huge and lasting impact on me and I feel the need to share it with you. This is one of those things - something which is simply powerful! I’m talking about a particular YouTube video that came out years ago and has over 66 million views!
I actually saw it last year for the first time when it was brought to my attention. Since then, I have sent it to hundreds of my readers and I even base some of my coaching principles around it. Before I disclose this video, I need to preface it by talking about the evil voices most of us have in our heads at one time or another.
The more stories I hear from the women I coach, the more I’m convinced there is an evil person in the room…and his or her name is you!
I’m not talking about doing stuff like abusing animals or stealing. I’m talking about the one person who constantly harasses many of us – US! Every day, people are subjected to a constant onslaught of internal insults – stuff like "I’m not good enough", or "He will never love me, or
I’ll always be this way – lonely and broke."
Is this the voice inside of you? Do you say these things to yourself without even being aware of it? This evil person lies within and you may not be able to control her without some kind of intervention. Most people will go to their grave with this insulting person by their side.
Stop this evil voice today – start right now!
Negative Nelly is slowly killing you, and when I say killing you I mean killing you! She will affect your health, your relationships, your career and everything else important to you. Kill her off and displace her with a new, positive voice, then watch the heavens open up.
"But Gregg…how do I get rid of this voice? It sounds hard!" You get rid of Negative Nelly with affirmations, and believe me, they work! You’ve heard of them and probably even made fun of them, but has anyone taught you how to do affirmations and why they work? Have you talked to someone who has broken through, changed their bad habit and accomplished great