The Good Black Woman

By Palesa Pitso

Palesa Juxta poses two sides of women, that of being good and bad in subtle ways. Also the use of Black in the book has connotations of black being some colour that has been used historically to mean something bad or painful. The book also looks at the choices made by women in an effort to be normal.

The book is borne out of observations of the good deeds of women and yet also observing that much as women are good but they also deal with hardships and fears, some caused by them and some not their own doing.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris UK
• Release date: Sep 29, 2012
• ISBN: 9781479719181

Palesa Pitso

Explain why readers will be interested in your unique voice as an author. Write in the third person (he, she, it) and highlight your credentials. This will be placed in the back cover of the book. Palesa Pitso is a South African woman, born in Umlazi Township, South of Durban. She was raised by very loving and humble grandparents. Her love of books grew from a very young age whilst at school she used to read a lot of Novels, later in life she continued reading until she decided to write her own book. Palesa has a teaching background having studied up to Honors level and taught at different High Schools for 11 years. She now is in the Public Relations and Marketing field. One of her friends describes her as a woman who has love for all because of her ability to accommodate every person and finding goodness in people.

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Copyright © 2012 by Palesa Pitso.

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Contents

Acknowledgements

The Preface

Chapter One The Good Black Woman’s Mystery: Men

Chapter 2 A good black woman’s Aspirations: Normalcy/Normality

Chapter 3 A Good Black Woman’s Exit: Marriage

Chapter 4 A Good Black Woman’s Worst Nightmare: Divorce

Chapter 5 A Good black woman’s Taboo: Sexuality and Change

Chapter 6 A good black woman’s Anger: Betrayal

Chapter 7 A good black woman’s fear: Loneliness

Chapter 8 A good black woman’s most dreaded disease: Hiv/Aids

Chapter 9 A good black woman’s sanity: Healing

Chapter 10 Finally: A good black woman and her conscience

Acknowledgements

With special thanks:

To all my friends for their support and those that urged me to carry on after having read and edited my book especially Phila Ngidi, Nontokozo Mkhize and Yolanda Sineke. May God bless you.

To Nompumelelo Dludla my pillar of strength, you always give me direction because you know me so well. God bless you my friend abundantly.

To Mbali Hlatshwayo who came right on time to give me the support I require. Thank You Mhayise.

To my only son Kwasa Khoza, who half the time never knew what I was getting up early for until I told him I have finished writing a book. You are a blessing in my life.

To my family, the Pitso’s, at some point someone had to write a book, I guess it had to be me. I love all of you.

To Jabulani Mabaso, though we are not friends anymore, I thank you for suggesting that I write a book. You saw what I did not see in me, and it took 4 years for me to complete what I started in Cape Town. Thank You.

To the Xlibris publishers who gave me an incredible package and made my dreams a reality.

To all the Good black women out there, keep on believing in your abilities to shine and be the best that you can be without compromising yourself. Your struggles, desires, and joys do not go unnoticed by God. He will smooth your paths and calm your storms, and carry your loads. That is why I love Him so much.

The Preface

Many books have been written about woman but not particularly good black women except maybe in Biographies.

My book addresses the good black woman in General, no celebrity stuff, just the day to day life of a good black woman.

The title can be very confusing when you read on but that’s exactly what I want each and