DID LINDA HAVE "THE TALK"? You'd be surprised to know that she didn't. Instead, I had to binge-watch every season of Sex And The City to learn about sex.  Who else bought a back massager after Samantha recommended it? No, just me??This is Single Minded, the podcast flipping the script on being single. Because being single is awesome.On today's episode, I chat to Cheryl Fagan, a Sex Educator and Sexologist with degrees in psychology & sexual and reproductive health. She is also the founder of On Top, an e-learning platform that provides holistic sex education.  We usually think of sex as involving the mind and the body, but holistic sex education is about mind, body and spirit. YES, SPIRITUAL SEX IS A THING! Cheryl and I chat about what a sexologist does, why she's passionate about creating shame-free spaces to talk about sex and how we can move past our blockages to pursue our sexual fantasies. The books Cheryl suggests are below: Slow Sex by Nicole Daedone Come As You Are by Emily NagoskiLove Worth Making by Stephen Snyder You can also check out her card deck here: http://cherylfagan.org/the-shop/closeness-card-deckGuest: Cheryl FaganHer website: http://cherylfagan.org/Instagram: @cherylfagan