Women Are the New Men: But Who’S Gaming Who?

By Kenny Mack

Its no secret: Women have a hidden power that men often overlook. Men think that they invented all the tricks to get what they want, but really, its the other way around.

Time after time, men who think they are winning the game are really losing. That becomes all too clear in this account written by stand-up comedian Kenny Mack, who looks at his own relationships to demonstrate that men have nothing on
women when it comes to gamethose skills that an individual uses to get what he or she wants.

Get ready to discover hidden truths, including
why women really say I love you;
why women dont want you to get to know them;
why and how women recreate themselves;
why its so hard for men to admit theyve been played.

Youll also learn the many other games that women play to manipulate men. If you want to truly understand what a woman is thinking when she meets you, kisses you, or tells you she loves you, then you need to understand that Women Are the New Men.

• Language: English
• Publisher: iUniverse
• Release date: Sep 15, 2011
• ISBN: 9781462044818

Kenny Mack

Kenny Mack, a native of Charlotte, North Carolina, is a stand-up comedian. His two true loves have taught him a lot about relationships and real love. He has been a leader his entire life; he puts God first in everything he does and believes in writing from the heart.

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Contents

About This Book & The Authors Experiences

Chapter 1

Real Talk (I probably wont trust you)

Chapter 2

Opening

Chapter 3

Who met who

Chapter 4

Re-create Yourself

Chapter 5

True Lies

Chapter 6

Check the Stats

Chapter 7

Did you really say that?

Chapter 8

Women are the Best Cheaters

Chapter 9

Payback or Playback

Chapter 10

My Friend Girls or Friendly Games

Chapter 11

I Love You

Chapter 12

No More Games

About This Book & The Authors Experiences

This book Women Are The New Men shows that women have a hidden power that men often overlook. Men often feel as though we are the species that invented all the tricks and all the game resulting in the female never knowing what hit her until its over. This book will demonstrate time after time that when we as men think we win we really lose.

Women Are The New Men takes u through all the stages of the relationship between men and women. It points out how game is used at the beginning of a relationship all the way to the end. Throughout the book readers will discover that men create their own battles that they cannot win. This book highlights some of the most memorable parts of Kenny Mack’s life. These experiences have shown him that men have nothing on women when it comes to game.

Focus groups and blog participants also came together to discuss more in depth the dating and relationship concept of game. The heart sometimes thinks for an individuals mind and decisions are made out of love instead of reason. The wants the needs of the heart control our action, and this book puts them all in perspective. The next time those words of a persuasive female touch the ear of men everywhere they will be able to make decisions with their mind not just their heart.

This book is for the man that ever wanted to know what a woman was really thinking when she meets you, kisses you, hugs you, tells you she loves you, or claims that you are her best friend then this is the book for you.

Chapter 1

Real Talk (I probably wont trust you)

Super Bowl 1994 I remember begging my mom to let me go watch the game at Sharron’s house. I convinced her by saying that there was a large group of us going to watch together. My mom didn’t really want to let me go to a female’s house but since she is one of the coolest moms in the world, she eventually caved in. The Super Bowl started and we were all into the game until Dallas started beating Buffalo pretty bad. I think the final score was 30 to 13. During the forth quarter I walked off into the computer room. Sharron followed me into the room, and started kissing me. Now Sharron was fine; maybe the prettiest girl on the cheerleader squad. Sharron had thick caramel thighs, soft beautiful eyes and a smile that would stop a deer. Sharron also was a senior and I was in my first year of high school. It wasn’t the first time that she and I had kissed, but it was the first time that we had kissed so sexual. As I was sitting on the computer chair she started to grab on my mid section, and the rest is history. I was dumb struck; it felt so good and so real that I just knew I was in love. Sharron and I would stay on the phone until five in the morning, I was at her house after school all the time, and we would skip school together. I was under the impression that she liked me. Sharron spent all of her free time with me either on the phone or skipping class. So when she started kissing me at her house all sexual I had to ask Sharron if she was my girlfriend. She laughed and said Yeah I will be your girl. I was like, for real I want you to be my Girl. And she said yeah baby I am yours for real.

When we got back in school the next day I felt like I was walking on the moon. I had a beautiful girl that I was proud to say was mine. Once I started telling people that Sharron and I were together, they told me when they had slept with her. I was like whoa, when did she have time to have sex with all these people? It didn’t matter, because I was still going to have sex with her. At least I thought I was going to be able to still have sex with Sharron!

On Valentine’s Day I went to school late with a bunch of balloons, and a big teddy bear for her. She looked shocked when I gave them to her, but she gave me a big kiss and said thank you anyway. I asked her if I could take her out that night and Sharron said that she had some homework to do but she would love to go out that weekend. I was like, cool. I tried to call her that night and her mom answered and said that she wasn’t at home. Me being so naive, I said to myself, maybe she went to a friends house and did her homework. The next day at school I went to the gym and the star basketball player was talking about the date he had with Sharron the night before. Needless to say I was played to the fullest. Sharron had told me that she was my girl for real, she told me that she had home work for real, and she made me feel that I was the only one she wanted in her life. It was a sad day in history for me. She scarred me pretty bad, and made me the way that I am now. I always think the worst, and I always figure someone is trying to run game. So if you say real talk I probably won’t trust you.

Chapter 2

Opening

Game is being able to be smooth with the opposite sex. It’s being able to convince someone of something that is far from the truth and being able to persevere through any situations and come out as the winner. The thing about fellas is that we play games and think that we are playing by ourselves. That is, until that day when we are extremely surprised and disappointed to find out the one thing that we had feared about our girl, that she was playing the game too. Games have winners and losers. In a relationship who is the winner who is the loser? The winner is the person that cares the least because they can get over it the fastest. The person that cares the least is able to do what they feel, and do what they want to do and worry about explaining their self at a later date.

Game has been around for a very long time and women have always been the masters of every kind of game. Back in the early 1900’s when it was taboo for a woman to have sex with a man that she was not married too (unless she was earning money) women used other ways to exercise their game. Remember the first push up bras? Women would tie those little slips really tight to make their breasts stand up. Their breasts would point out so far that every time a man looked over at her, he thought she was pointing her breasts