30 Days To Clarity, 30 Days To A Better You: Daily Insights & Matching Affirmations of The Heart - Towards A Greater Sense of Peace and Clarity

By Peta Jane Kayes

The Power of Affirmations and Clarity - 30 Days To Clarity, 30 Days To A Better You

”The day you get clarity is the day the world will stop telling you who you should be and the day you will no longer be silent about who you are. Then its noise will be your silence.”
Use meaningful introspection and powerful affirmations to give you the sense of clarity that comes with completely knowing who you are, and what your life is about.

Peel away the doubts and find clarity in these areas of your life:

Know the importance of finding yourself in this world
Getting satisfaction from the pursuit of your goals
The importance of having patience
Dealing with despair
Dealing with the fear of failure
Avoiding mediocrity
The importance of setting goals
Dealing with the ego
The importance of Giving
The consequences of Criticizing others
The importance of Cultivating true friendships
Getting rid of hypocrisy
The importance of truth and honesty
Expressing love
Seeing sin for what it is
Marriage and personal relationships
Do you have a Belief in God problem?
Why Self-respect is so important
Letting go of grief
Protecting your own joy and never letting the world steal it.

Over 30 days, see and feel yourself grow and become:

More grateful.
More confident of who you are.
More aware of why your values are so important to you.
More resolute.
More charismatic.
More patient.
Less egotistical.
Closer to God.
More generous.
More genuine.
More ready to leave your pain and hurt behind.
More truthful.
More able to express love.
More able to embrace your joy.

You will come to see that Clarity is a disassociation from all that which confuse, from all that which detract, from all that which dissipate. And it is an embrace of all that which give focus, all that which is truth, all that which is without pretense.

In 30 days You will get Clarity, experience lighter days and a more cheerful heart.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Peta Jane Kayes
• Release date: Sep 2, 2017
• ISBN: 9781370372287

Peta Jane Kayes

Relationship and spirituality aficionado. MBA - Human Resource Management.

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A PRAYER OF ACKNOWLEDGMENT

Dear God, as we rise to the birth of another morn,

Full of promise and beauty,

We acknowledge that which greets us.

Let us acknowledge our own beauty, and be eternally mindful that it remains with us always, even in our state of ugliness.

Let us acknowledge the opportunity to cleanse ourselves of the fears and follies of yesterday.

We acknowledge that we cannot be anything but that which you made, and that which you made can only be good.

We acknowledge that we do ourselves great harm when we choose to

think of your creations in any other way.

We acknowledge our own delusions about ourselves that at times result

in our own ugly creations.

We acknowledge all that has brought us to where we are now,

including your love, the love of friends and family and even our

tribulations. For these we give thanks.

We acknowledge that You have given us more than we think we need.

You have given us the capacity to create what You know we will need.

Help us to realize that if this is true, then all that we need is already within.

Preparing For Your 30-Day Journey

1.Understanding The Danger of Playing To A Warped Audience

~~ Your Warped Audience ~~

You cannot play to an audience of a warped world without you yourself becoming warped.

Your job is to play to the audience of truth. Then your work will seek out only those who have what it takes to attract it.

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"If you repeat a lie often enough, it becomes accepted as truth." – Joseph Goebbels

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This world in which we live is inclined to twist and bend things to suit its own objectives and agenda. Governments do it. The news media do it. Religious organizations do it. So-called special interest groups do it. People in general do it.

If you seek to play to this audience with a view to satisfying them, then you are only perpetrating the lies that they themselves have created. Your only alternative is to play to truth. Speak your truth regardless of what you perceive the consequences will be. It will find those who are ready for it.

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I seek out only audiences that value truth.

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2.Understanding The Importance of Maintaining Your Joy

~~ Protecting Your Joy ~~

Allow no one to rob you of your joy. Those who would rob you of your joy will have none to give themselves. As such the world is poorer and less joyful.

Our joy is the result of who we really are. It emanates from the fulfillment of our deepest desires. Yet, we will allow the world to dictate to us how we ought to fulfill those desires. The world is not necessarily interested in you being happy. The world is interested in you playing to the script it has written for you. The more you conform to this script, the more secure the world feels because dissension makes it insecure about its own long-held beliefs and perceptions.

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"Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears." – Khalil Gibran, The Prophet

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The world is more interested in its own security rather than your joy. It cannot give you joy because sometimes real joy comes from ripping apart that which it thinks it knows and embracing that which seems strange to it. The world has a problem with this because its own security comes from conformity. As a collective, that is the nature of its existence.

When the world robs you of your joy, it does not end up with more joy itself. It ends up feeling a little more secure. As such, that which you are robbed of is taken out of conscious existence. The world has less joy because now you have none, but it could not care less, as long as it is secure. Hold onto your joy, its only useful place is within you.

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I allow no one to rob me of my joy. I gladly give the world my joy by being grateful, gracious, and thankful of the joy I have been given.

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3. The Importance of Knowing What Your Expectations Are Rooted In

~~ Your Expectations ~~

Be careful that your lofty expectations of another do not become the chains that keep you bound in slavery.

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"I freed a thousand slaves. I could have freed a thousand more if only they knew they were slaves."- Harriet Tubman

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How often have we put others on a pedestal only to satisfy our aspirations of who we would like them to be. There is nothing wrong in having high expectations of others. But when we give those expectations the power to define us then we run the risk of being held captive by them whether they are fulfilled or not, without us even realizing we are captives.

By all means have lofty expectations of others but be wary that you are not succumbing to the temptation of waiting for the achievement of others to define you or give you joy.

Do not allow your expectations of others to be the chains that hold you in slavery so that you are not free to be who you are, free to achieve your own expectations of yourself.

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My expectations of others are always reasonable. I free my own freedom from the expectations I have of others.

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4.Getting Your Fears Out of Your Way

~~ Getting Past Your Fears ~~

Our fears are but cowards and bullies. As soon as they are confronted they run away.

Sometimes all we need to do to confront our fears is to question them. Some of our fears are so unfounded, so without basis that in the face of a small challenge they vanish. A simple question of their validity takes us immediately in time beyond our fears materializing. Suddenly they don’t seem so intimidating anymore when we move beyond them. Other times we may need to just do what our fears are trying to stop us from doing.

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"The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek." – Joseph Campbell

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Our fears are an amalgamation of the result of past experiences and future perceptions. The more we learn from our past, the less we should have to fear. The only lesson we should learn from our perceptions about the future is that the present is what really matters. When we are back to reality, to what is now, our fears will quietly take leave of us.

Your fears are real and may even be valid. But they are most likely less of a threat than you may first think. Your fears will always seem to obfuscate whatever it is you need to do to defeat them. Do not equate the outcome that you fear with the actions you may need to take. As valid as your fears may seem, always go through the process of questioning their validity. Oftentimes their power over you will diminish once you understand their make-up.

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My fears are in the past. My fears have served their purpose and have been freed to go. My fears have left me with my courage in tact. I embrace the courage I now have.

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5.The Importance of Disconnecting From Your Grief

~~ Letting Go Of Grief ~~

You know you are free from your sorrows when you get no inclination to relive them any more. Our sorrows do not hold on to us. We hold on to our sorrows. The secret to letting go of them is to hold on to something else more worthwhile. They will then freely fall immobilized at our feet.

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"For this is a gracious thing, when, mindful of God, one endures grief while suffering unjustly." – 1 Peter 2:19, The Bible

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Our sorrows are like any other possession that we have and have come to know intimately. It matters not that it may cause us harm to continue holding on to them. All that matters is we are in familiar territory. Because we tend to believe