The Journeys of Joyce & Peter
By Mike Peeters
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The Journeys of Joyce and Peter is a detailed and personal account of the lives of two special and unique people – Peter and Joyce Peeters.
Peter - who against enormous odds survived the devastating bombings of Dresden, Germany in 1944 among many other close calls as a non-commissioned officer in the Dutch Army.
And Joyce - 10 years Peter’s junior, who was thankfully spared the worst horrors of World War Two, but nonetheless endured the shortages, rationing and other general hardships that went with growing up as a young girl in war torn England.
From their first meeting at the New Settler’s Club in Auckland, New Zealand on New Year’s Eve 1950, to their final journey to Perth, Western Australia in 2001, this book recounts some of the most memorable adventures that befell them and their four children: Anthony, Timothy, Michael and Ingrid.
Mike Peeters
A freelance journalist, I have also worked in the corporate and tertiary sectors and for universities and large government organisations. I currently run my own media business Mike Peeters Media.
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The Journeys of Joyce & Peter - Mike Peeters
THE JOURNEYS OF JOYCE AND PETER ©
as told to Michael Peeters by
Johannes Cornelis (Peter) Peeters & Joyce Peeters
Cover photograph:
Newly-weds Joyce and Peter outside their first home in 1951, a rental in Herne Bay, just south of the Harbour Bridge, Auckland, NZ.
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THE JOURNEYS OF JOYCE AND PETER
AN ETEXT PRESS BIOGRAPHY
Smashwords Edition
ISBN: 978-1-921968-77-8
Copyright © Michael Peeters
Cover photograph: Newly-weds Joyce and Peter outside their first home in 1951, a rental in Herne Bay, just south of the Harbour Bridge, Auckland, NZ.
Michael Peeters has asserted his rights under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 and any and all other applicable international copyright laws to be identified as the sole author of this original work.
CONTENTS
DEDICATION
FOREWORD
PART I – THE DYNAMIC DUO
PART II – JC PEETERS
PART III – THE GOLCAR LILY
DEDICATION
This book is dedicated to Joyce and Peter from their children; Anthony, Timothy Michael and Ingrid (and their children)
FOREWORD
As the title implies, the three stories in this book are an amalgamation of Joyce and Peter’s memories of their life, love and travels – from their meeting on New Year’s Eve 1950 at the New Settler’s Club in Auckland, New Zealand, until the present day; Peter’s birth in the small town of Oisterwijk on September 30, 1919 until he met Joyce on that fateful night, and Joyce’s life from her birth in Golcar, Yorkshire, on October 20, 1929.
The stories are based on interviews I had with Peter at Cheverel (the family home in Western Road, Cheltenham) when I visited there with my former wife Robynne and son Liam in 1997/1998. Since then a lot of water has passed under the bridge, with the ‘Old Dutch’s’ (and the younger ‘Golcar Lily’s’) extensive travels effectively coming to a close in Perth, WA, in October 2001 after they settled permanently in Coolbinia. Apart from one or two short side trips in 2003 and 2004 to Sydney and Brisbane – to see Joyce’s older brother Phil and the couple’s oldest son Anthony and his children Matthew, James, Alexandra and James – this was their last major trip. But it was still a huge shift, considering Peter was by then in his early 80s and Joyce in her early 70s. Their never-say-die attitude was with them to the very end of their 61-year marriage.
The years since they arrived in Perth in late-2001 were for the most part delightful, as Joyce and Peter could now enjoy unlimited quality time with their four, Perth-based grandchildren. Youngest children Ingrid and Michael (me) also both had young kids of a very similar age, so Peter was especially in his element. As Joyce always said, Peter loved children until they got too big to pick up and play with, then he lost a bit of interest!
At the time of writing, Ingrid and husband Rob’s children, Katya and Nicola, are 16 and 13, while Michael’s kids, Liam and Ella are 14 and 17. Many were the times we would roll up as a family to visit Joyce and Peter in Warralong Crescent to enjoy a chat, cup of tea and, in summer, a swim in the backyard pool.
Coming to Perth gave Joyce and Peter a new lease of life - enabling them to live in their own home for much longer than they could have back in England without family support. The siblings all chipped in - with second son Tim helping to furnish the new home with a variety of affordable, old furniture.
In their later years in particular, Ingrid especially helped out with cleaning the house and making dinners for the two of them - until the family called upon the help of the excellent ‘Meals on Wheels’ service and the very useful HACC (Home and Community Care) which helped with garden maintenance and the like.
Mum & Dad’s 60th wedding anniversary, July 27, 2011.
Joyce and Peter’s 60th wedding anniversary was on July 27, 2011 and the smiles on their faces were priceless when mid-morning on the big day, congratulations cards arrived from the Queen, Governor-General, Prime Minister, Premier, Leaders of the Opposition (State and Federal) and local MPs.
The idea for the 60th anniversary cards was spawned after I had gone to the UK for a three-week holiday and my old school friend Jason Pughe suggested it. I don’t think I had ever seen the two of them so proud, (especially Mum).
Unfortunately, in late-2011, Peter’s health deteriorated and he became so frail that the family was forced to place him in permanent residential care at the Embleton Aged Care facility. Separating the two of them was heart-wrenching and it took another six months before a place at Embleton could be found for Joyce and enable her to be reunited with Peter. In that time, the children took turns to spend time with Mum, staying over regularly at the house so that she did not feel so alone.
Finally, in March 2012, a double room at Embleton became available and for the next 10 months or so the two of them lived relatively happily, although Joyce’s dementia became steadily worse.
Joyce and Peter both passed away in 2013 and are now singing with the angels in heaven.
Michael Peeters
February 2014
THE DYNAMIC DUO
The meeting
It was New Year’s Eve 1950 and Joyce and her friend Eileen were off to the New Settlers’ Club as they were having ‘a bit of a do’.
While playing table tennis they noticed their friend, Jerry Brakeveldt, talking to a strange man.
Jerry and this stranger began watching us play,
said Joyce.
After the game, they came over and suggested a game of darts. We agreed, although I thought the stranger a bit of a clever pot as he couldn’t even hit the board, never mind the bull’s eye!
Afterwards, Jerry and the stranger – a mysterious Dutchman who introduced himself as Peter - invited the girls over the road for a coffee at the Rendezvous Milkbar.
After coffee, they suggested we go for a swim at Parnell Baths but we didn’t have our togs with us,
said Joyce. Don’t worry about that,
they said cheekily.
Joyce said she thought something fishy was going on - but they decided to go along with it anyway.
Unfortunately, Parnell Baths was closed for New Year’s Eve, but undeterred; the boys climbed the fence, followed by a somewhat reluctant