The Human Soul: The Facade Self

By Jesus (AJ Miller)

Jesus describes how the facade self is a layer within the soul that covers our damaged self, which we, our parents and environment created, and our true selves, which God created. Breaking down the façade self is essential for having a close personal relationship with God.
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This ebook is a transcript of a seminar delivered by Jesus (AJ Miller) on 5th November 2011 in Murgon, Queensland, Australia, as part of the Human Soul series.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Divine Truth Pty Ltd
• Release date: Nov 4, 2012
• ISBN: 9781301000258

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The Human Soul:

The ‘Facade’ Self

By

Jesus (AJ Miller)

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This ebook is a transcript of a seminar delivered on 5th November 2011 in Murgon, Australia by Jesus (also known as AJ Miller) as part of the Human Soul series, focusing on the facade self. The facade self is a layer that we create and place around our damaged self, which our parents created, and our true selves, which God created. Breaking down the façade self is essential for having a close personal relationship with God and our long-term happiness.

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Table of Contents

The Facade Self: Part 1

1. Introduction

2. The three selves: the real self, the damaged self and the facade self

2.1. Truth breaks through the hard shell of the facade self

3. Reasons for wanting to avoid the damaged self

3.1. Fears of the damaged self

3.2. Belief systems about our emotional pain

3.3. Fears of going crazy

3.4. It’s possible to release some areas of the facade self but not others

3.5. God created the real self perfectly

3.6. Fears of the damaged self (continued)

3.7. Discovering who we truly are

3.8. Releasing false beliefs is necessary to break down the facade

4. The facade self

4.1. We need to feel to heal

4.2. The fear-pain scale

4.3. Facing the pain that we have caused others

4.4. Maintaining the facade can create confusion

5. The three selves continued

5.1. The real self knows no fear

5.1.1. The example of having a fear of being raped

5.2. The Law of Attraction works on all three selves

5.3. The importance of will for breaking down the facade

5.4. Feeling afraid of the real self

6. Always act upon loving desires, but feel and don’t act upon unloving desires

6.1. Holding on to unloving desires and emotions

7. Prioritise working through issues relating to God first, then our souls, then others

The Facade Self: Part 2

8. Fears surrounding discovery of the real self

8.1. How to develop a desire to discover the real self - trust and faith in God

8.2. Spirits in the 6th sphere on the Natural Love Path are in facade

8.3. Society’s view of normal emotions

8.3.1. The example of politics

8.3.2. The example of religion

9. Qualities that are needed to confront the facade self

9.1. We need integrity to choose to not live in our addictions

9.1.1. An example of sexually projecting at women

9.1.2. We have love of self when we don’t meet our own addictions

9.2. A desire for truth

9.2.1. Our actions indicate the sincerity of our desires

9.2.2. We need to discover personal truth as well as God’s Truth

9.2.3. Personal honesty

9.3. We need to break down the facade before we truly desire God’s Love

9.4. A desire for personal growth

9.5. Dedication and perseverance

9.5.1. A desire to explore and experiment

9.6. A willingness to feel out of control, let go of judgement and be humiliated are parts of letting go of the facade

10. Reasons for lack of trust in God

10.1. We are afraid of confronting our addictions and other people

10.2. Investment in our own and other people’s opinions of us

11. Fears about not being loved

12. Qualities that are needed to confront the facade self (continued)

12.1. Using our will in the right direction

12.2. Compassion for our emotional damage

12.3. Lack of will vs. lack of courage

13. Closing Words

The Facade Self: Part 1

1. Introduction

Now, the spirit energy today is pretty heavy, as you've probably already noticed. So what we'd like to do for a moment, before we begin, is to just have a prayer to God to look after us and help us to be open today to the material, to help us to be open to our emotions so that the spirits can't influence us very much with regard to hearing things. If you could just do that for a moment! I would like to clear away some of that heaviness that we've brought along with us today. [00:01:09.14]

There has been quite a lot of pretty heavy spirit influence on many of you; I know that and it's understandable given many of you are attempting to progress. Many of the spirits around you don’t want you to progress so that's a good sign that you've gotten out of the addiction and out of the bribery, and now you are getting blackmailed a bit. That's usually a good indication that things are actually improving with regard to your spirit interaction. [00:01:47.02]

Today's talk is part of the human soul series of talks and the subject of the talk that I've chosen today is, The Facade Self.

2. The three selves: the real self, the damaged self and the facade self

This is an extension of a talk that Mary and I gave in Melbourne earlier in the year, where we introduced the three selves. There was the facade self, then the damaged self and then there was the pure self or the real self. And remember we said that God created the real self, your parents and the environment created the damaged self and you created the facade.

And what we notice happening is that many people are having a lot of difficulty with the facade. In fact generally, once you've dealt with the facade, it is actually very easy to feel your damaged self. It’s very easy to feel it, and also to release it as well. And the difficulties that we have facing the damaged self or releasing the emotions of damage that have been done by the environment are almost all because we still have the facade in play in some way. So what I'd like to do today is talk to you about this facade self in more detail to give you a bit of assistance in terms of how to break through the facade and get to the real selves, if you like, the real self and also the damaged self.

Now you could think of the human soul in a way as a bit like an egg. The core or the yolk of the egg is your real self, the self that God created. And then you could think of the albumin that the yolk exists in as the damaged self. And then you could think of the shell of the egg, right the way around the outside which isn't very thick but is quite hard and brittle. If you think about that, you could call that the facade self.

The real self is all soft and squishy in that it doesn't have a large amount of resistance, it doesn't have a large amount of anger, it doesn't try to reject things and push things away, and it’s not rebellious. It just goes with the flow. And the damaged self, interestingly enough, is often very similar to that. It's also quite squishy in the sense that it's quite easy to actually feel the emotions of the damaged self once you get through the facade. But the facade self is like the shell of an egg, and the shell of an egg is pretty hard. In fact if you squeeze the egg in a certain direction, it's impossible for the majority of people to break that egg. If you squeeze the egg lengthways, and you really push down on it, it's very, very hard for it to break. And it's only when there's a crack in the shell under that circumstance when you're pushing down on the ends, trying to force the egg into breaking that it actually breaks apart. [00:06:35.24]

2.1. Truth breaks through the hard shell of the facade self

But there's another way that you can break the egg, isn't there? Rather than trying to break it on the ends by pushing or squeezing it, or putting it under pressure, you can just go along and tap the side of the egg on something that's hard. And the egg now has a crack and the shell is automatically easy to break. And we can just reach our fingers there and crack it apart. Something that before would have taken huge amounts of force to break can now be broken quite simply. So we need to find what the shell cracker for our facade self is. And that is truth. But it's not the forcing of truth, rather just the tap of truth, if you like.