Finding freedom before, during, and after a painful relationship breakup takes grit and the re-imagining of your life.  On today's #obsessedpodcast listen to divorce coach and motivational speaker Kindra Beck explain how she has made her pain her purpose.  Kindra speaks of pivoting the pain and feeling the pain. Kindra says,  "Your pain doesn't have to be negative, right? Your pain can turn into your purpose. Your pain can create a new growth plan and a new growth path for you and can create a new life if you let it, but you have to do it the right way." Reflection is a key component in dealing with painful situations, like divorce. Kindra emphasizes that you have to look at yourself reevaluate and reflect.  This can be done through journaling. It can be done through yoga. It can be through meditation, but it is essential to get in that space where you're really reflecting on your past.  It is also important to be focused on where you want to do in your future.  Finding those quiet moments where you don't numb yourself with distraction is something to practice if you are going through a painful time.    To Learn More About Kindra Beck and her mission to make her mess her message click here: https://www.kindraspeaks.com/ And don't forget to DM the Obsessed Girls On Instagram: @crown_compassgirls And keep up with your favorite women of The Obsessed Podcast! https://linktr.ee/crownandcompassgirls