How do you need to feel in order to get in the mood for sex? Relaxed? Loved? Safe? Desired?

Your core erotic feeling (CEF) is the feeling you require in order to get in the mood for sex, and it can revolutionize the way you approach pleasure, seduction, and sex.

If you or a partner; have trouble getting in the mood, or if you find that erotic touch often isn’t enough - this episode will help youbetter understand the emotional-erotic connection, so you can have all the hot sex you desire.

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Emotional Seduction: The Core Erotic Feeling

Intro: [00:00:00] You're listening to the sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and relationship advice. You can use tonight.

Brandon: Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess Podcast. I'm your co host Brandon Ware here with my lovely other half, Dr. Jess.

Dr. Jess: Hey, hey, I'm excited for the topic today. Amazing. We are talking the erotic emotional connection.

We're going to be talking about your core erotic feeling. And to me, this is the most interesting, meaningful, impactful piece around sex because I've said this before and I'll say it again, every human experience is emotional. Every experience, every interaction, every transaction, every conversation, everything intimate, anything that involves a human being is an emotional experience, right?

It's, and, and we, we [00:01:00] see this in business all the time where if you make someone feel important, if you make someone feel valued, if you make someone feel as though they're a part of something, right? That buzzword of community. Everybody's always, you know, all the brands are talking about creating a community in order to sell you things.

When you make people feel something that they want to feel, they want more of you. So that could be super simple, like going into a restaurant and being treated like you belong there, right? Being treated like a regular, being told welcome back, um, being prioritized in some way. It makes you want more and more of that.

Similarly, when brands effectively create communities online. where, you know, you feel like you're a part of a social movement, or you feel as though you found people who understand you, then you keep coming back for more. And so we get this in business, we get this in marketing, we get it in relationships as well.

Of course in relationships we're always talking about feelings, but I think so often it gets left out of the bedroom, out of sex, right? We talk about like, how to touch somebody, the words to say to them, [00:02:00] how to But what underpins almost all of that? is the emotional piece, right?