Do you want to...

Bicker less and catch yourself before you start?
Stay calm and empathetic during conflict?
Feel more at ease and connected so - that you're less inclined to fight?

Tune in for a discussion - of why we bicker and 12 simple strategies to reduce conflict in relationships as Jess and Brandon weigh in on this listener question: "We love each other madly. He’s really the love of my life, and we don’t seem to have any big, deep issues because we’re really aligned - on values, family, spirituality, and the core issues. But we bicker a lot. I don’t like - the example we’re setting for our kids. How can we cut back on the daily bickering so our household is more at ease and we have more peace - because we both work from home."

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Episode 340

How To Stop Bickering: 12 Strategies

[00:00:00] You're listening to the sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and relationship advice you can use tonight.

[00:00:15] Jess O'Reilly: Let's bicker.

[00:00:16] Brandon Ware: Let's, what are we going to bicker over?

[00:00:18] Jess O'Reilly: You splashing all over the place in the bathroom. Like you're some sort of a hippo in the tub.

[00:00:22] Brandon Ware: Well, I can't help it because the sink is too small.

[00:00:25] Jess O'Reilly: Cause your head's big.

[00:00:26] Brandon Ware: I got a big face. Well, you know what? You make a mess sometimes.

[00:00:31] Jess O'Reilly: We absolutely suck. We suck at this. We're supposed to be talking about bickering today, but when you put us on the spot, listen, when we're in the middle of a bicker, we got it.

[00:00:39] Brandon Ware: Things are real.

[00:00:40] Jess O'Reilly: We've got it down, but to fake it seems really hard.

[00:00:43] Jess O'Reilly: Uh, we're going to talk about how to stop bickering and having little daily arguments today. We have a question from, uh, from a listener, and this is a question I kind of get over and over. And over again, because life can be stressful and life can be busy. And I think that's one of the big reasons we bicker.

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[00:01:19] Jess O'Reilly: Adam and Eve. com code. Dr. Jess 50. All right, let's dive right into it.

[00:01:23] Brandon Ware: Let's, are we going to continue bickering or is, is this where it stops?

[00:01:26] Jess O'Reilly: No, we're going to start bickering.

[00:01:28] Brandon Ware: Let's do it. Yeah. Amazing.

[00:01:29] Jess O'Reilly: Okay. So we have this note, uh, there's a bit of a preamble, but the bulk of it is we love each other madly.

[00:01:35] Jess O'Reilly: He's really the love of my life. And we don't seem to have any big deep issues because we're totally aligned on values, family, spirituality, and all the core issues. But we bicker. A lot. I mean, nonstop. And I don't like the example we're setting for our kids. How can we cut back on the daily bickering so our household is more at ease and we have more peace because we both work from home?

[00:01:59] Jess O'Reilly: [00:02:00] Yeah,