Let’s Talk Threesomes!

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Let’s Talk Threesomes!

FromSex With Dr. Jess

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Apr 6, 2018

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Luna Matatas joins Jess to talk about threesomes. From how to snag a unicorn to how to navigate those awkward moments, we’ve got you covered.

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This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

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Apr 6, 2018

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Sex Q&A: How to Get Your Partner to Open Up, How to Manage Mismatched Libidos, Anal Sex & More!: Jess and Brandon team up to answer listener questions about anal sex, discrepancies in desire, how to get your partner to talk about fantasies and more. They share personal insights and open up about some of their sexual experiences (even if Brandon do... by Sex With Dr. Jess
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What Do Your Neighbors Fantasize About?: Are you curious about your friends, co-workers and neighbors’ fantasies? Of course you are! Dr. Justin Lehmiller was curious too, so he asked over 4000 Americans to share their deepest, darkest and most exciting fantasies. by Sex With Dr. Jess
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Why We Misread Our Partners & What We Can Do About It: Dr. Liz Powell joins Jess and Brandon to discuss how “hot thoughts” sabotage relationships. They also discuss friendships, gender roles and share personal stories of relationship struggles. - Follow Dr. Liz on... - Twitter - Instagram - Facebook by Sex With Dr. Jess
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Sexuality & Gender Terms Defined: Pansexual. Cisgender. Sapiosexual. Gender Queer. Gender Fluid. Agender. Aromantic. Demisexual. Gender Non-confirming. Transgender. Award-winning activist, Aida Manduley, joins Jess on the podcast to discuss terminology related to sex and gender. by Sex With Dr. Jess
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