Elle and Vee share their experiences and challenges of bringing a third to a weekend getaway and how they worked through being triggered.Vee shares her fears, desires and boundaries for this episode. (2:26)A challenge of having a third partner: balance. (3:57)Codependency, projection, and the stories we tell ourselves. (6:41)Elle discusses another potential challenge of having a third: feeling left out. (13:32)Elle's example of "the stories we tell ourselves" and the lessons learned. (18:16)Avoidance as a coping strategy. (26:36)Confirmation bias to support our stories. (28:47)Elle's plan/tools to deal with triggers in the future. (30:15)What Vee would do differently the next time she brings a third. (31:49)The Four Agreements. (45:08)How instagram impacts our mental health. (48:56)Support the showInstagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!