We are back with another amazing episode! Samia has the amazing Shelah Marie on the show! Y'all know her as the founder of the Curly Conscious Movement & The Unruly Retreat and author of "A Positive You." We're diving deep into topics from gaslighting to trauma to manifest masturbating as a couple, we cover it all! Here are some of the highlights: People tell me no all the time, and that’s OK! (2:35) After having a baby, Shelah helped Samia regain her confidence and find her inner power. (3:57) Today's Adult Tip of the Day: Stop Gaslighting yourself and start believing in yourself. (4:42) Black women gaslight themselves the most and it's time to stop. (8:35) Do all women have a little gay in them? (15:43) Does the Bi-romantic vs Bi-sexuality conversation perpetuate misogyny? (Tweet) (19:40) Shelah shares her trauma and how she’s worked through it. (28:35) Samia opens up about her trauma to Shelah and references the back story, which is detailed in Episode 1. (32:49) They discuss alternative healing methods as an alternative to religion. (37:18) Samia explains EMDR and they share their experiences with it. (43:57) There are other options for therapy, such as using scuba diving as a therapeutic session. (52:28) Astrology is a language - if you don't "believe," just say you don't speak it. (57:21) Shelah shares a scene from her past life regression session, which was a powerful and transformative experience. (1:01:16) In today's Sex Tip of the Day, they discuss masturbation and manifestation as a couple and how Shelah used it for goal setting. (1:06:00)  Refer to Ep. 6, for the Natal Chart explained in the Spiritual Tip of the Day  Get Your Thigh High Socks HERE! Use code NJASP at checkout for 15% off  MasterClass: #MouthMasterClass Masturbation & Squirting #DickRiding101 Use Code NJASP for 50% off!!!  Check out Patreon for more BONUS CONTENT and weekly discussions. www.thesexualessentials.com Connect with Samia  IG: @Miabuggzy       @notjustanothersexpod    Connect with our Guest @theshelahmarie (instagram)  UNRULY Retreat with Shelah Marie  www.shelahmarie.com   Dr. Rahmani was on Red Table Talk discussing the difference between gaslighting and lying.  Episode with Kirah