This week, Samia is joined by King Heff aka Daddy Heff to talk about kinks, but more specifically how kinks can correlate to prior trauma. Join them as they discuss: Why you don’t owe anyone an explanation (2:45) How squirting is NOT an orgasm (4:20) Samia opens up about her trauma and how it shows up in her kinks (8:44) Dating older men (10:46) Nipple Orgasms and trauma responses (15:14) Aggression and punishment (21:16) Why Samia can’t call a man daddy (27:07)  One of Samia’s fantasies (32:20) Samia's impact play session w/ Daddy Heff (38:28) How to choke someone properly (41:49) Spiritual Tip of the day (55:40)   Get Your Thigh High Socks HERE! Use code NJASP at checkout for 15% off  MasterClass: #MouthMasterClass Masturbation & Squirting #DickRiding101 Use Code NJASP for 50% off!!!  Check out Patreon for more BONUS CONTENT and weekly discussions. www.thesexualessentials.com   Connect with Samia  IG: @Miabuggzy       @notjustanothersexpod     Connect with our Guests  King Heff All things Daddy Heff Twitter @daddy_heff