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135: Strategies to Address Disrespectful Behavior

135: Strategies to Address Disrespectful Behavior

FromScience Backed Solutions for Children’s Behavior and Mental Health


135: Strategies to Address Disrespectful Behavior

FromScience Backed Solutions for Children’s Behavior and Mental Health

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Length:
11 minutes
Released:
Nov 1, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Disrespectful behavior, whether displayed by children, adolescents, or even adults, can create tension, hinder productive communication, and disrupt the harmonious flow of daily life. It often emerges as a response to an inability to handle stressors adequately or a deficiency in coping skills. Strategies that equip individuals with the tools to manage stress in a constructive manner can act as a linchpin in mitigating disrespectful behaviors. And so, I’m here to provide more insights into this critical topic concerning strategies aimed at effectively addressing and managing disrespectful behavior in various contexts, particularly in the journey of parenting. Managing irritated children and regulating nervous systems.As always, I want to emphasize the importance of understanding that children's dysregulated behaviors are not intentional, as they lack control over these actions due to a lack of reinforcement for proper behavior. That is why there is a need for consistent efforts in regulating one’s nervous system to approach challenging situations with the mindset that the child's behavior is not deliberate, fostering understanding and patience.When parents are faced with a child's challenging or disrespectful behavior, the initial instinct might be to respond with frustration or irritation. However, consciously choosing to share our calm in such instances is a powerful shift in approach. It requires recognizing that the child's actions are not intended to provoke or upset us but rather reflect their struggles with understanding and managing their emotions.Through this approach, we create a more supportive and nurturing environment for the child to learn and grow. Patience becomes a fundamental quality, allowing us to communicate with empathy and teach appropriate behaviors. This method not only aids in addressing current behavioral challenges but also lays the groundwork for the child's emotional growth and long-term well-being.Parenting strategies for effective communication and discipline to build trust and reduce friction in parent-child relationships.It’s important for us to highlight the detrimental impact of engaging in fact-finding during conflicts, particularly in relationships involving individuals struggling with dysregulation, often due to their immaturity or clinical conditions.It advocates for avoiding arguments and focusing on constructive solutions, emphasizing the importance of setting clear and consistent boundaries with logical consequences. Moreover, this approach encourages positive reinforcement to encourage desired behaviors, emphasizing the significance of acknowledging and reinforcing efforts and progress. Additionally, it stresses the value of establishing routines and structure for children of all ages to provide stability and predictability.Establishing clear behavioral routines to reduce friction and startle effects in interactions with children is also important. It’s best to allow a 10-day learning curve when implementing new routines, anticipating initial resistance and eventual reduction in challenging behaviors. Remember that consistency throughout this period is vital for effective implementation.Additionally, building a parent-child relationship based on trust is a crucial factor in minimizing conflicts and fostering a strong connection. You can try finding activities to connect with your children, such as cooking or engaging in shared interests, to strengthen the relationship and build autonomy. Managing disrespectful behavior in children.In effectively managing disrespectful behavior in children, a highly recommended approach involves seeking professional guidance from therapists who can act as skilled mediators and coaches. These professionals play a crucial role in assisting parents and caregivers to comprehend and address the underlying issues...
Released:
Nov 1, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

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Parenting comes with joys and challenges. If you are a mom or dad with a child or teen who is struggling with everyday life or clinical issues like ADHD, Autism, Dyslexia, Executive Functioning, Anxiety, OCD, Depression or Mood, or Lyme and PANS/PANDAS, then you need solutions. If you have seen Dr. Roseann on TV, then you know she doesn’t shy away from real talk about real problems. She gives parents the science-backed keys to unlocking big and small kid and family issues. Blending hope with science, Dr. Roseann teaches parents how to calm the brain to have a happy family. https://drroseann.com