In this conversation, Mary and Katie discuss the impact of perspective and the importance of focusing on what truly matters in life. They share their experiences with online criticism and the challenges of dealing with trolls. The conversation also delves into the judgment surrounding cosmetic procedures and the need to respect personal choices. They explore the trap of relatability and the pressure to conform to certain expectations. Finally, they discuss the evolution and growth of creators and the importance of protecting mental well-being in the face of online hate. In this conversation, Katie Costa and Mary discuss the pressure to be relatable on social media and the challenges that come with it. They explore the contradictions of social media and the difficulties of navigating criticism and disagreements. They also touch on the importance of differentiating mom shaming from constructive criticism and the significance of sharing safety concerns. The conversation concludes with a discussion on dealing with trolls and haters, choosing who to follow and engage with, and the upcoming changes on Katie's page. The main takeaway is the importance of kindness and empathy in online interactions.TakeawaysLife can change in an instant, reminding us of what truly matters.Online criticism is inevitable, but it's important to respond with kindness and not let it bring you down.Everyone has the right to make choices about their appearance, and judgment should be replaced with respect and understanding.The pressure to be relatable can be limiting, and it's important to embrace authenticity and individuality.Creators should prioritize their mental well-being and not let online hate affect their self-worth.Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com