I find myself constantly going back and forth - should we or shouldn't we? Have another kid, I mean. Jess Runas is the ultimate "Mom of All Stages" - teen, little kid, toddler, and a baby.  She knows what it's like to balance every stage of the game!  So this was a fun conversation to weigh the ultimate decision of adding another kid to the family. Episode Highlights:How do you know if you're "done?"Managing the age gapsConsidering all-the-things when adding to your familyThe grief of seeing your kids grow upJess Runas is a wife and Mom of 4, based in California. Her social media accounts are real, funny, and welcoming. You can find her on Instagram, Facebook, and also shop her online store, 4theloveshop.Join Mary everyday for a real look into life with 3 crazy ass kids, surviving, thriving, and whatever the F else you might consider over at www.instagram.com/theverymarylife. Or if you're a Tik Tok fan, find me at https://www.tiktok.com/@theverymarylife. And of course, explore more on Theverymarylife.com