Some of us want to achieve inner peace and harmony. We're tired of the stresses we constantly feel. And while it is true, when you heal, when you do the inner work to achieve the outer results of different behaviors and renewed relationships, you do cut down on the drama. But much like exercise requires us to constantly challenge our physical bodies, so too is there a need for ongoing inner conflict or tension. It's the need for opposing forces for us to achieve our higher, bigger self. The Law of Three is referred to by Gurdjieff as “the second fundamental cosmic law." According to this law every phenomenon consists of three separate forces, which are Active, Passive and Reconciling or Neutral. This law applies to everything in the universe including organic life on earth. On whatever scale, from molecular to cosmic in whatever world, results from the combination of three opposing forces – the positive (affirming), the negative (denying), and the neutralizing (reconciling) force. And this idea is also put forth from philosophers from a variety of ages, some attribute the concept of thesis, antithesis, and synthesis to Hegel, some to Kant. That doesn’t matter. What we’re putting forth here is the idea that there will always be tension in your growth work. So, intrapersonally there is tension, there will be tension, and the good news is there does in fact NEED to be tension.Time Stamps:The problem with repetitive conflict. 1:32People see patterns of repetitive conflict and dramas.The tension between self-compassion and self-confrontation.Self confrontation. 3:12Self-confrontation is necessary in the coaching process.The law of three.The law of three. 4:45A shock point, a reconciling force.Burnout and the third force. 6:34We get stuck in our own shit. 7:51The one-sided echo chamber of beliefs.The importance of reconciliation and synthesis.Being open to the tension you're feeling. 9:00How do you break the script? 10:38Find out more about Big Self SchoolWe still offer our flagship burnout coaching package. We also offer packages for those seeking clarity and reconnecting to their life purpose–and we do this work with individuals and couples. Reach out to us if you’d like to book a discovery call and learn more about our coaching packages.Book a discovery call hereWant to learn more about the role stress plays in your life, and discover your blueprint for how to handle it based on your Enneagram type and subtype? Order a copy of Chad’s