We need to be open to a third force — another way of having an experience — so that we can defuse the psychic bomb of our personal history. This script is why we repeat dramas throughout our lives. When you introduce a third force — or a new way to do the script — you can finally step out of it. This is also why self-confrontation is critical to healing and growth. We cannot set up camp in self-compassion. That’s only one path of the work. We have to create a tension to give us material to work with. So how do we do it? Time Stamps:1:00--The idea of moving past repetitive conflicts4:38--The three forces at work when moving into and through conflict8:42--How Roy Kent got stuck in Ted Lasso11:52--Three different ways we can listenShow Notes:Order a copy of Chad’s book Shock Point or order an ebook here.Leave us a review and subscribe on Apple iTunes or Subscribe on SpotifyFind us at bigselfschool.comJoin us on LinkedIn