We're chatting with Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander about their new book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. We're talking all about communicating in relationships and how to keep long term relationships spicy.  Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @vanessaandxander Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com    Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE