S1 E20| ”Afraid to Offend”

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S1 E20| ”Afraid to Offend”

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Feb 8, 2023

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I've been hearing this a lot in conversations lately, this idea of being "afraid to offend," when it comes to showing up, taking up space & getting after it.
Today I posed the question, "why has taking ownership of your life somehow become synonymous with offense?"
Today we're taking a deep dive in to why we are truly asking ourselves this question, and what it really means to ruffle some feathers in our entrepreneurial pursuits.
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Lindsey Plevyak

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Feb 8, 2023

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