Joshua is a 41 year old professional dominant, who is into photography, martial arts and philosophy. Mary is 31 year old process manager, who enjoys singing, disability advocacy and all things Halloween.We talk about the intersection between kink/BDSM with disability, the ways play can be adapted and tweaked to best suit different abilities and needs, the issues around stigma and fetishizing disability, green and redflags.We also dive deep into professional domination, how to ensure consent, the importance of friendships before play, integrity, and vulnerability.The total consent acronym discussed:M: MarksI: Injuries and illnessesT: Triggers, turnoffs, tone, timeP: ProximityI: Interaction and intensityS: SafewordsA: Anything elseLinks mentioned‘Twas The Day Of Harvest End-You can find Joshua here: masterjoshua.com, kinkcollective.net, and Mary here: @kinkabilities. Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1