Loni joins us for a discussion on sapiosexuality, sex as art and embracing curiosity.We discuss the problem of becoming defined by labels, the ethics of consent, kinks all being a spectrum - rather than a binary category, being attracted to the process of the mind, and the relationship between sexual and mental health.She leads me through the Yoga Nidra practice of ‘Sankalpa’, with the goal of channelling the generated sensual energy into all aspects of life. We talk about age play, re-watching movies as adults and deriving new meanings, the positives and negatives of the interplay between the internet and kink, Netflix and chill, and how sapiosexuals have sex.I end the podcast with a reading of the poem ‘Sapiosexual’.-You can find Loni on Instagram: @lonip89Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1