Esther is a 30 year old music teacher from Australia who enjoys psychology, sociology, self-sufficiency and neuroscience.We discuss her experiences growing up gay within a religious community, diving into the shame, self doubt, confusion, and feelings of loneliness that comes when you are fundamentally different from those around you. She shares her journey of coming out of the closet, and into a happy lesbian relationship, one that enables her to live her truth.We also discuss the connections between the pill and arousal, the impact of adults modelling appropriate behaviours, heartbeat fetishes, feeder kinks, and thinking yourself into orgasm.Links Mentioned:Gary VaynerchuckEye Dilation Study3M Littmann Classic III Monitoring StethoscopeGreg’s ConfessionYou can find Esther on her website: fromnarcissismtonirvana.com-Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1