Eli is a 32 year old math tutor from USA who enjoys reading, baking, anime, and star gazing.We discuss the appeal novelty in BDSM, one night stands versus relationships, the need for respect online and real life, submission in an out of the bedroom & the pre-work needed to be successful, degradation kinks, the dance of domination & submission, signs of consent, and safe words.We also discuss the concept of sub-spaces, with the revelation that it may be a goal in and of itself (non-sexual). We also discuss the interplay between society, family, religion and culture with kink.Trigger warning - parts of this podcast may be confronting for some listeners.-Links Mentioned:Models - Mark MansonVampire Hunter - Laurall K. HamiltonRachel’s Confession-You can find Eli on Instagram: @preyplaysgamesWant to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1