Are you aggressively working on your goals because you want to live to your fullest potential or because you want to prove a point to the people who hurt, doubted, and didn't support you?Topics discussed in this episodewhen my ambition and drive for success was rooted in getting revenge on people who didn't support mehow my relationship with my mother led to thishow my relationship with my father led to thishow my relationship with other people led to thisthe turning point (when I realized this was problem and got tired of it)how I stopped living for validation from others on my successhow I got to the point where I don't care if people clap for mewhat life is like when you don't care about achieving things to prove a point to peopleMentioned in this episodeTikTok mentionedEP #18 - How to deal with your toxic familyEP #12 - Why your pain is necessaryEP #35 - This is why you think you're behind in lifeEP #21 - How to thaw out your cold heart with forgivenessLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Sponsorship Inquiries: hello@secludedthoughts.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy