Things don't always go as planned or envisioned. When this happens what do you do? Do you run away or do you stand and see your way through the mess? I experience this in grand fashion during Episode Four of Season Four. Things start off calmly enough with me trying to meet up in person with The Woman Dressed in Black I met in Episode 2 (Season Four), but things take a turn and accelerate full-speed into the unexpected. After all, isn't that one of the main things that makes life the beautiful tapestry of experiences that it is? In this episode, I come face to face with the unexpected and learn that much more about myself in the process.
Episode Hot Takes:
Emotional Desire versus Physical Desire vs. Chemistry
What to do when it's you not them
As always, the gift of the cold hard truth and learning how to be honest with yourself and your feelings, despite the urgings of others
Pretty is, but pretty so what?
Learning how to exercise grace rather than "winning"
Why unfollowing on social media matters (it doesn't)
Acknowledging pain and talking honestly about it with God

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To My First-Time Listeners: Thank you for listening! If you want to truly know what's going on you need to go back to Season One, Episode One, because that is where the story starts.