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Revenge Sex and a Brown Paper Bag

Revenge Sex and a Brown Paper Bag

FromThe Dating After Divorce Survival Guide


Revenge Sex and a Brown Paper Bag

FromThe Dating After Divorce Survival Guide

ratings:
Length:
27 minutes
Released:
Mar 15, 2021
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

"Revenge is mine!" sayeth the Lord. Revenge may look cool and might seem like a good idea in the movies when the hero goes for broke to even the odds. But that’s the movies. In real life, not so much. Revenge sex (not to be confused with make-up sex) is an even worse idea. But that doesn’t stop me. Mad, sad, disappointed, upset, and completely knocked off my game thanks to the events of Episode 5, A New Orleans Ghost Story, revenge is on my mind. But revenge doesn't accomplish much.
EPISODE TOPICS:
(00:14) Act 1: Acting out of Anger and Living in Echo Chambers
Stuck in someone else's pain
Why revenge doesn't work
Mistakes versus evil and why your pain doesn't make you special

(06:54) Act 2: Revenge and Its Various Forms
How revenge plays out in emotional matters
Why you need to be honest with your accountability tribe no matter what
Why revenge is a waste of time
Who actually suffers when you seek revenge

(17:24) Act 3: Revenge Sex - Setting the Trap and Creating the Bait
There was really no way for this to end well, but at the time, I simply did not care.

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Resources from the Episode : 
You are NOT Your Past and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise: https://epayne.me/podmerch (https://epayne.me/podmerch)
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Get control of YOUR time. It’s your most precious asset: https://epayne.me/self-care (https://epayne.me/self-care)
Learn your worth. Speak your worth! https://gumroad.com/l/MinpA (https://gumroad.com/l/MinpA)
Get poems featured in Season 3 here: http://epayne.me/poetrybook (http://epayne.me/poetrybook)
Episode music by Epik The Dawn and Temper Beats
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About The Dating After Divorce Survival Guide
Datin' ain't easy — especially the second time around. Join retired blogger (MakesMeWannaHoller.com) and divorced dad, Eric Payne, for his humorous storytelling escapades that take you along for the ride over and through emotional hills and valleys as he navigates dating life as a divorced man. Eric doesn't shy away from any of it – the good, the bad, the ugly, and the messy, and he isn't afraid to call himself out when he's the one being messy. 
Released:
Mar 15, 2021
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (60)

Eric Payne, a divorced dad and retired marriage & fatherhood blogger, tells the comedic tale of his "Chapter 2" — having to start life over brand new after a divorce he didn't want. What Does Starting Over Mean? Although "free” for the first time in 15 years, Eric has years of baggage and a stubborn desire to hold on to the past which initially keeps him stuck as he tries to move in a world way different than the one where he first met his ex-wife in the year 2000. From one-night stands to ghosting to online dating, to mental anguish and heartbreak to the self-care that is required of a 40+, divorced Black man and father in America, Eric tackles it all with fearless transparency, vulnerability, and a refreshing sense of humor — especially when it comes to making fun of himself. It's transparent, it’s raw, it’s funny, it’s messy, and it’s hopeful, but most of all it’s proof that second chances do in fact exist for us when life doesn’t go as planned. Tune in for the exploits, especially the failures — there are plenty along the way on his journey of trying to find love again and discovering himself in the process.