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Love, Rain, Kings, and Queens

Love, Rain, Kings, and Queens

FromThe Dating After Divorce Survival Guide


Love, Rain, Kings, and Queens

FromThe Dating After Divorce Survival Guide

ratings:
Length:
38 minutes
Released:
Apr 1, 2021
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Acting on your emotions always feels good in the moment but rarely works out in the long run. Your host, Eric Payne, a.k.a. the Divorced Dillenger puts both his feet in a pile of you know what when he casts care to the wind (based on the events of Episode 5: A New Orleans Ghost Story) and backslides on his principles when it comes to who and how he dates. But don't lose hope! Things just may end on a high note in the season finale of Season 3 of The Dating After Divorce Survival Guide.
EPISODE TOPICS:
Why acting based on your emotions rather than sound judgment is never a good idea in any relationship. 
Why it’s okay to want what you want. 
That you can and in some instances should elevate yourself above your circumstances.
Why it’s necessary to have “space” in relationships, no matter what.

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Resources from the Episode : 
You are NOT Your Past and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise: https://epayne.me/podmerch (https://epayne.me/podmerch)
Sign up for episode recaps from me, dating Q&As, access to exclusive merch, and more: http://patreon.com/ericpayne (http://patreon.com/ericpayne)
Get control of YOUR time. It’s your most precious asset: https://epayne.me/self-care (https://epayne.me/self-care)
Learn your worth. Speak your worth! https://gumroad.com/l/MinpA (https://gumroad.com/l/MinpA)
Get poems featured in Season 3 here: http://epayne.me/poetrybook (http://epayne.me/poetrybook)
Episode 7 poetry is adapted from Love Rain by Jill Scott (Miss Jill)
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About The Dating After Divorce Survival Guide
Datin' ain't easy — especially the second time around. Join retired blogger (MakesMeWannaHoller.com) and divorced dad, Eric Payne, for his humorous storytelling escapades that take you along for the ride over and through emotional hills and valleys as he navigates dating life as a divorced man. Eric doesn't shy away from any of it – the good, the bad, the ugly, and the messy, and he isn't afraid to call himself out when he's the one being messy. 
Released:
Apr 1, 2021
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (60)

Eric Payne, a divorced dad and retired marriage & fatherhood blogger, tells the comedic tale of his "Chapter 2" — having to start life over brand new after a divorce he didn't want. What Does Starting Over Mean? Although "free” for the first time in 15 years, Eric has years of baggage and a stubborn desire to hold on to the past which initially keeps him stuck as he tries to move in a world way different than the one where he first met his ex-wife in the year 2000. From one-night stands to ghosting to online dating, to mental anguish and heartbreak to the self-care that is required of a 40+, divorced Black man and father in America, Eric tackles it all with fearless transparency, vulnerability, and a refreshing sense of humor — especially when it comes to making fun of himself. It's transparent, it’s raw, it’s funny, it’s messy, and it’s hopeful, but most of all it’s proof that second chances do in fact exist for us when life doesn’t go as planned. Tune in for the exploits, especially the failures — there are plenty along the way on his journey of trying to find love again and discovering himself in the process.