BDSM educator, Casey Carter, welcomes us back from our summer hiatus on episode 95 of American Sex podcast. Casey tells us about diving into the kink & leather world after the age of 40 when an unexpected divorce forced her to reexamine a sexual part of herself he had abandoned years before.  She gives us important tips about exploring kink and tells us why understanding what’s behind our reluctance to talk to partners about fantasies is crucial for a satisfying sex life. We discuss the upsides and downsides of being one of the few black, dominant, female BDSM educators in our field plus Casey gives us ideas for pervertibles you have right in your own home that you can use tonight.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 95 Links   Casey Carter Twitter (Home of Casey@Night-- weekly Twitter/Periscope show Wednesday 10pm EST) https://twitter.com/ReadCaseyCarter Casey Carter Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thecaseycarterexperience/ Casey Carter Website http://casey-carter.com/ Casey Carter’s Erotic Short Stories https://www.amazon.com/Casey-Carter/e/B0142Z1XWW/ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1?qid=1538519018&sr=8-1 Casey Carter’s Patreon Bonus Story https://www.patreon.com/posts/28545978 Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast   Episode 95 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info   Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01     ⁣