Gut feelings, hunches, intuition-- we all have it. But how can we harness these skills & use them reliably? How can they help us get what (& who) we want in bed? Can it be done ethically & consensually? Susanna Brisk, Sexual Intuitive®, answers these questions & more talking about her new book, "How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition" (Sunny edited it!). Ken confesses his secret Russian Dominatrix fetish. Sunny & Ken answer a listener email about anal training to prepare for your first pegging session.   Guest Bio Susanna Brisk is a Sexual Intuitive® who coaches clients to uncover what they like, what they need, and how to get it. She coaches a variety of ages, genders, and orientations worldwide on Skype, as well as in person at her Topanga Canyon office. She was born in Estonia, grew up in Australia and moved to New York where she continued a successful career as a model, comedian, and actor before switching to sex ed. Susanna is a gifted public speaker, author, and broadcaster who has taught workshops in Los Angeles at the Stockroom and Sexual Health Expo LA. She has been featured in LA Weekly and on Vice, as well as on Fox, Sirius XM, Playboy.com, The MILF Code, and Playboy Radio. Her tell-it-like-it-is missives have been read by the better part of a million people on yourtango, After Party Magazine, sexpert, Sexual Health Magazine, and her own popular site Real Sex Daily. More info and testimonials on coaching are available at sexualintuitive.com Episode 31 Topics Don’t sit on concrete, FemDom roleplay, the language of love, ESP,  sex positive parenting, #MeToo, first time pegging, Russian superstitions, how to set boundaries, Ricky & Lucy beds, listening to your gut, societal gaslighting, Dommy Mommy, butt plugs, abusive relationships, peacocks faking orgasms, fight flight or freeze, love at first sight, privatizing the VA, overriding your gut instinct, ambassadors of fuck, emotional labor, the 1-2-3 finger method, how to figure out what your needs are, pee hands, astral projection, Estonian, anal training, leaving your wife, Aziz Ansari, dogs milk & mice Episode 31 Links Susanna Brisk Website http://sexualintuitive.com/ Susanna Brisk Blog, Real Sex Daily https://realsexdaily.com/ Susanna Brisk Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexualintuitive/ Susanna Brisk Twitter https://twitter.com/susannabrisk How To Get Laid Using Your Intuition Book Amazon https://www.amazon.com/How-Laid-Using-Your-Intuition-ebook/dp/B079P1CZSG/ How to Laid Using Your Intuition Website http://www.howtogetlaid.org/ Sunny’s Booty Vibro Kit Youtube Video https://youtu.be/JtBgjLpbrn0 Sunny’s Butt Plug Video https://youtu.be/cSa-LtkBKyY Susanna's bonus story https://www.patreon.com/americansex Episode 31 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Osci by Lovense Smartphone controlled oscillating g-spot vibrator giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter:  http://sunnymegatron.com/osci  Giveaway entry ends 4/1/2018 20% off your order at  http://castlemegastore.com   when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at  Lelo.com  with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast