With Ella turning 30 in two weeks and Steph having already reached the big milestone last April, we goss about what we ‘should’ have ticked off the invisible expectation list that comes hand in hand with turning 30 (aka having your shit together). Whether it’s the pressure of getting married, buying a house or having a kid - we delve deep into our fears and where we sit on all three. The reality? We don’t fit into the cookie cutter mould of what “being thirty” means and we’re okay with that. Realising we’re not quite where our parents were at our age is scary but we’re embracing the paths we’ve chosen. Reflecting on all the highs and lows of our 20s - navigating work, life and relationships - we’ve had a pretty wild ride and don’t regret a thing. We’ve also replaced having a kid (for now) with our fur babies Kobe and Tonka, and we love them like children lol. If you’re about to turn thirty, the biggest lesson we’ve learnt is not to put too much pressure on yourself to conform to what you think you should be doing because at the end of the day, everything works out exactly how it’s supposed to. Enjoy your 20s, trust your gut and most importantly, enjoy this ep! #Kolide Advice What we’re drinking:Mexink - the finest margis in a can (2.6 drinks per can - yassss) 4 flavours: Classic, Coconut, Jalapeño, Passionfruit. Ella:Sol Cups Sol Bottles (850 or 410 ml)Pure Binchotan Active Charcoal Water Filter Sticks Nikki Teo (aka the dog whisperer) from Eastside Dogs Steph: La Tribe Sandals Elke Sandal and Braided Thong Tan Maddam Phone JewelleryFor all our local advice and recommendations check out @kolideinsta and our website kolide.com.au and to keep up to date with our work, you can find us @theardentco. If you like what you hear, we’d LOVE for you to subscribe, rate and review.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.