Click for full show notes, exercises, and word-for-word scripts from this episodeWho are you, really? How is it that you feel completely different but yet still in some ways totally the same as you did when you were a kid? What will you be like when you're older? Teenagers are starting to wrestle with difficult questions about finding your identity.These issues will really confront them hard during their twenties, when they'll have to choose a career and figure out where, how, and with whom they want to live their lives.But the groundwork for finding your identity is already in place during the teenage years.So how can parents support teens during this process? Especially if you're dealing with rebellious teens who want to do everything for themselves?This week's podcast episode, featuring Paul Angone, answers just that question.He is often called a "leading voice to Millenials." After studying young adulthood and the generational differences between Millenials and Boomers for years, Paul Angone started the popular blog All Groan Up -- a place for those asking “what now?”His new book is called 101 Questions You Need to Ask in Your Twenties (And Let's Be Honest, Your Thirties too) and it is an insightful collection of wisdom about the big issues that young adults are wrestling with in their lives.Paul talked at length about the process of finding your identity, or your "secret sauce" that you can bring to the world. The key is to push teens to take on increasingly more responsibility in their lives while also taking the right kinds of risks.Then he reveals exactly what parents should say to teens during this process.In this episode he goes into extreme detail, revealing additional specifics and strategies not found in the book. Paul Angone explains the in's and out's of engaging teens about finding your identity during this 43 minute episode.