How well acquainted are you with ... tops, bottoms, otters, wolves, bears, cubs or twinks?    Sara and Jye take a lighthearted look at some of the most common terminology used in the gay world with their guest Tom Attenborough this episode.    Tom shares his views on the classic "nature vs nurture" debate, and questions if it really matters. We also discuss the biggest stereotypes about gay people, whether the "gaydar" actually exists, and how the gay scene in Hong Kong compares with the rest of the world.    We then debunk the biggest myths around gay sex, and discover why there's a lot more to gay sex than "one person bending over, and the other smashing it in"!     ---   Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Instagram Detailed show notes for this episode here. Produced by Jye Smith (@doublestarco, jye@doublestar.co)